finally changed all my social media to this name and i was so scared to for awhile bc gaia was such a big part of my identity for so long that changing it felt like giving up what i built but like mama grew and identities have shifted like it doesnโt have to be that serious. ๐ฅน
The heart seeks familiarity before it seeks peace. Thatโs why we return to what hurts us. The pain we recognize feels safer than the unknown we donโt. Eventually we learn that loneliness isnโt the absence of people. Itโs giving your love to someone who consumes it without gratitude and discards it without thought.
a forma que ele estรก sempre verificando se ela estรก bem, observando se precisa de algo, sรณ me faz pensar o quanto essa mulher รฉ mimada por esse homem, queria um assim ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
You will always be the villain in an entitled persons story. Some people canโt tell the difference between being harmed and being denied. They receive your boundaries as an act of cruelty and your refusal to drop everything for them as a personal attack. They resent the discovery that your life does not belong to them.
If youโre the only one doing emotional labor in your relationship itโs not a good relationship. Like letโs normalize leaving people that arenโt putting in the effort to communicate their emotions effectively.