杀光男人8964

邪恶女巫 我会远走高飞

[杀光男人8964 @Margret8964]

我值得！我想要！我会很快得到！一切好东西、最好的东西都会来到我身边！

[杀光男人8964 @Margret8964]

金泫雅开始穿着三角裤跳舞了，真的好离谱。她希望观众觉得她漂亮、喜欢她、想要回到全盛期的心情是可以理解的，但她的服装、她的舞蹈、她的行为对现在的女爱豆同行和还没出现的女后辈来说好危险，现在女爱豆的服装已经很短很短了，作为有影响力的大前辈对这圈子里的女孩们可以说毫无责任感。

[一枚板栗 @pr6b4t]

有趣的暗号！

P1：默克尔菱形，也被叫做权利三角形，英文是Merkel raute
P2：那不勒斯四部曲中女性参加女权运动时的手势
P3：外阴为灵感的艺术图案，不知道出处，希望知道的媎妹可以告诉我
P4：圣母像与外阴的关联

[BearHead🐻 @SamTelepath0921]

@ranrandehuoyan 🍇是韩国女权的标志，具体为什么忘了，搜到了以前韩国姊妹的解释😂；2020年那会儿中日韩女权在推上交流过，有些姊妹名称里会带🍇🍤👊🏼

[✂️精神专院赵主任👊🏻☀️ @ranrandehuoyan]

补充一下我所知道的emoji
🤏 起源于韩国男认为该手势侮辱了他们的生殖器，所以被韩国女权化用成为女权标志
🍤象征日本女权，日语中“虾”的发音和evidence的发音类似，表示“我就是证明”
👊🏻 中国女权，因为郭蝻用【拳】企图污名女权，所以直接被拿来化用脱敏，代表女性力量

[ZeroGhost｜零鬼 @ZeroGh0st91]

I would not be afraid to punch you on the face or kill you if you keep doing that.

Now the consequence of judging ＝hurting or death, people will stop using them continuously. That's the way.
Many women especially donkeys always forget being called beautiful is still judging. /5

[ZeroGhost｜零鬼 @ZeroGh0st91]

Simply like beauty.
It is not: Keep trying to become Beautiful that patriarchy want
Or: Expand the meaning of beauty: every kind, everyone is Beautiful

It is: You dont have the right to Define me.
Making Judgments about me without my permission IS offensive for me. /4

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

4. Release guilt: In enmeshed families guilt and manipulation are used. We might be called selfish or even compared to other siblings who are more willing to go along with the status quo. It's ok to be your own person, it's actually healthy.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

For a long time I thought people pleasing and putting others before myself made me a good person. It look me a while to see there were elements of control and manipulation behind it. I wasn't doing it because I wanted to, I was doing it because I didn't want to deal with my own guilt of disappointing someone. And I couldn't deal with anyone having a negative perception of me.

It was self centered, but I was telling myself it was for other people.

It's a gift to wake up.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Our body remembers these experiences, and we can live with a fear of abandonment. That little voice in our head (our ego) says someone's going to leave us, that we're unloveable, or that we can't trust anyone. This is self protection.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Doing one thing that’s difficult every day is the best way to build self confidence and self trust.

[☀️Grow @Simonne35096653]

精字的本义指经过加工、挑选、提炼的东西，引申词也全是正向褒义词，比如精华、精细、精明。人们会有“精”=优质的认知。.染可真会给自己贴金啊，就那排泄物一样的东西也敢来碰雌“精”字。
更可恨的一点是，给配子贴金的同时，诋毁打压卵字，比如“卵用都没有”，让人觉得“卵”=没用。

[☀️Grow @Simonne35096653]

我现在看到还在用“精子”来描述次级配子就很不爽啊！！😡。

意味着在大多数人的认知里，“精子”还是和卵子同等重要的东西。物以稀为贵的价值法则在这里彻底失效了，每天批量产生的便宜货居然也配和一个月才能有一个的珍贵卵子相提并论？更别提卵细胞还有独有的线粒体遗传了，哪个层次都不配啊！！

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

People raised in homes without conflict resolution can feel blindsided, hurt, or highly annoyed by any situation where they don't have control.

Their nervous system goes into threat mode.

The body always remembers.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

In successful relationships, people know their concerns matter, their perspectives are valued, and their viewpoint (even when we don't agree) will be heard.

This is openness, or the ability to take feedback even when uncomfortable.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Defensiveness is an attempt to control the narrative rather than: find a solution, stay connected to our partner, or to come together as a team.

It sends the message: your concerns don't matter to me.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Defensiveness disconnects us from our partner, and creates a situation where they can't come to us with issues or concerns. We also feel like we're never heard, reinforcing core beliefs from childhood that we're always misunderstood or can't ask for help.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Insecure parents seek a sense of self worth through their children.

They create (sometimes even before the child is born) a fantasy version of who the child will be. Based on their own needs, not the unique traits of their child. They struggle to actually connect with the child emotionally, and instead stay connected to a mental version of who their child ‘should’ be.

Children of these parents subconsciously feel like the relationship is transactional. And, that if they don’t fulfill their parents needs (accomplish, perform, be ‘perfect’) their parent will not approve of them.

As adults they sometimes have double lives, or two “selves”— the self they present to a parent and the self they present to the rest of the world.

At their core, they want nothing more than to be loved and accepted by a parent not for what they do, but for who they truly are.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

There is no greater feeling that re-creating yourself. Especially if you never learned healthy love, or didn’t have the best examples of how to navigate life. Nobody but you knows how hard it was to pull yourself up from emotional rock bottom. Those lessons made you who you are, and no one can take them away from you.