These “bandits” are not that sophisticated. If the Nigerian government actually wanted to find them, they would find them in a few hours. The government is complicit in this. it’s not rocket science.
Cheating is a very disgusting trait, you can’t praise one gender for it and condemn another for it! You must hate and condemn it when it’s done by EVERY gender, if not you’re a smelly spineless hypocrite.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who’s super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.