Having kids is a serious responsibility. I don’t think people fully understand that, judging by how casually some approach pregnancy, especially at a young age. Children are not accessories. Being a parent is real life work. It requires sacrifice, selflessness, emotional maturity, financial stability, patience, and a willingness to put someone else’s needs before your own. Raising a child is one of the biggest responsibilities a person can take on.
I fear Toy Story 5 was written by a millennial sick of these robotic kids on their devices, and It was chef kiss, They ate down with the messaging and how much we’ve lost...tech isn’t the villain it’s what happenes when when devices replace imagination. Soooo good really...
Sorry, but a partner who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping they’ll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.
But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.
When I say I want a man that can take care of me, I don’t mean financially! I’ve NEVER wanted anybody based off of what they can do for me financially! Only lil’ girls think like that! Take care of my heart, be my peace, love me out loud, caress my mind, nurture my soul... reassure me that WE ALL WE GOT you know...stuff money can’t buy
Pregnancy w/ the baby’s dad around hit diff 🥰 nthn like him rubbin your belly till you fall asleep. Nthn like him bringin you all your cravings you ask for or leaving work early cause you not feelin good & just genuinely being there for you 🫶🏽 Nthn like him makin sure he’s at every drs appt. Nthn like him being excited just as you are to meet y’all’s baby 🤭
Never knew a love so good. I love it here 😘
Women, do not under any circumstances reside with or procreate with a man unless he is a generous provider.
I have seen too many women working double shifts while pregnant or getting a meager "allowance" out of "his" money like children. Absolutely not.
You'll be sewing crafts to sell on Etsy as a side hustle after the kids are in bed just for your own spending money if you don't procreate with a provider man.
I'm dead serious.
Please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
i truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, funny, spontaneous God fearing husband
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
I feel so stupid walking into stores and asking if they have any Pokémon😭😭 I’m afraid of asking the personnel at the stores because I know they get asked ALL DAY
You lost her. You lost her attention, her kindness, and everything she gave you. She tried her very best to support you through every difficult situation you faced, yet you still disrespected her. You said things that deeply hurt her and affected her mental health. That was too much