Some things never change, same love for them.
2016 and 2026 ver of me, may tissue lang ako this time pero iyakin pa rin.
Seeing you perform live again after a decade felt unreal. It was like meeting a piece of my younger self all over again.
Thank you My Fairies 💗
bomi 🥹
“i’m being careful and although it’s a little awkward!
i am the most grateful and happiest receiving blessings from pandadeuls, more than anyone else!
thank you so much and let’s meet for a long time🧡”
q: when was the moment you found each other the most lovable or were most moved?
🤵🏻: when she’s lovable, it’s when she’s sleeping.
👰🏻♀️: ……
👰🏻♀️: ah, when i’m sleeping?
🤵🏻: yeah, she’s really lovable when she’s asleep.
i gets 🥹
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to my beloved princess, bomi.
after 10 years together, i think this may be the most heart-fluttering and nerve-racking letter i’ve ever written to you.
exactly 10 years ago today, i told you, “you can only be happy if you’re with me.”
i think those words slipped out before i even realised it.
when we said we were dating, there were worried looks from the people around us. but instead, you told me it didn’t matter, and you reassured me even more.
we fought a lot, i made you cry, and there were times when you were hurt because of me. but somehow, the time we spent walking together has already become 10 years. time really flies.
after meeting you, my life, which had always felt unstable, slowly became steady.
i didn’t know love, and i didn’t know how to care for someone’s heart. thank you for teaching me how to care, and for teaching me how to love.
when we are both struggling, when life wears us down and our hearts get hurt, i can’t tell you how grateful i am to have you, my medicine.
you know what we always say like a habit, right, bomi? “we make a good team.”
bomi, if it’s you, i feel like i can go all the way, even to the very end.
i no longer want to live my life only for my own happiness. i want to spend the rest of my life on you.
the promise i first made to you was true. now you understand why i said those words back then, right?
bomi, there will be harder days ahead, but because we are becoming complete in the lord, hold my hand tightly and let’s move forward beautifully together.
will you marry me?
cr; ayo4a53
q: when do you feel that we really are a great match?
🤵🏻: when we’re going through hard times. when things are hard for us, we really give each other strength while respecting one another. like, “oppa, you can do it.” “bomi, we can do this.” and we really love that about us.
👰🏻♀️: we match best when things are hard.
🤵🏻: we really do.
👰🏻♀️: there was a time when i thought, “wow, i really do love this man.”
🤵🏻: when?
👰🏻♀️: when you were sick. that was when i really thought, “oh? this is the person i should marry.”
🤵🏻: really? do you remember that? i sneezed really hard and hurt my back, so i was basically lying down for six months. you used to bring me salmon sushi every single day. and then she was like, “it’s so nice that oppa can’t go anywhere and is just lying at home.” that kind of scared me a little.
q: you’ve been dating for about 10 years — how do you work things out when you fight?
🤵🏻: in the beginning, for about 4–5 years, we really fought a lot.
🤵🏻: when it came to each other… i think we showed everything. we didn’t hide anything from the start.
👰🏻♀️: when oppa gets angry, he cries.
🤵🏻: you have to explain why i cry too.
👰🏻♀️: because he couldn’t really take his anger out on me.
🤵🏻: but the men will understand. it’s not like i can take it out on her.
👰🏻♀️: and i really liked that about him. when he gets angry, it’s not that he becomes scary or anything — he just cries by himself.
👰🏻♀️: and oppa, what did i look like when i got angry?
🤵🏻: when she got angry… i was always the one driving, and bomi would punch the car window.
👰🏻♀️: more than anything, we’re both really good at reflecting on ourselves. i think that’s why, even when we fight, we’ve gradually become much better matched.
chorong’s congratulatory speech to bomi (rough trans!
this is my first time in my life giving a wedding speech, so after bomi asked me to do it, i thought a lot about what kind of congratulatory words i should say.
everyone, please give her a round of applause.
our park chorong still has a long way to go, so let’s try again.
although i am standing here alone today, i would like to offer my congratulations to the two of you on behalf of our members, who have been together for the past 15 years.
to be honest, as i was writing this, i wasn’t very good at controlling the length, so it became a little long. but i will try to deliver each and every word with sincerity.
we used to ask each other, “who do you think will get married first?” and “who do you think we’ll marry?” so it still doesn’t quite feel real that the day has come for me to give a wedding speech like this.
when i first saw bomi trying on her wedding dress, so many indescribable emotions came over me.
i met bomi when she was 18 years old, still wearing a school uniform. over the past 15 years, like close friends, we have gone through so many things together and shared countless emotions.
we spent so many days crying and laughing while chasing the same dream. and now, seeing bomi become a proper adult and start a new family with the person she truly loves feels so amazing. at the same time, what stood out to me first was how brave bomi’s choice was.
since she was young, bomi has always made the people around her happy with her bright energy. so now, i hope bomi can live while focusing a little more on her own life and her own happiness.
for 15 years, bomi has always done her very best for our team. so i sincerely congratulate and bless her as another kind of happiness has found its way to her.
now that bomi has gained another eternal person on her side, apart from us members, i hope she lives happier and more joyfully than anyone else.
our bomi, who has now become my senior in life — from now on, i’ll learn even more from you by your side.
and when bomi is having a hard time, or when she should be happy, please always stay beside her reliably.
because it’s you, oppa, i think i can send bomi off with peace of mind.
to be honest, when i first heard that the two of you were seeing each other, i think i was honestly more worried at first. but after watching you closely over the years, i came to realise that you are truly a good person whom all of us can feel assured about. i think bomi was also able to grow into an even more beautiful woman because of that.
thank you sincerely for always staying by bomi’s side so dependably.
oppa, just as you have done until now, and just as you confidently said, i hope you will never let go of bomi’s hand, and that no matter what path you walk, the two of you will walk it slowly and well together.
watching the two of you, i often felt, “so this is what a healthy relationship looks like.”
now, even without doing anything special, you have become people who quietly stay by each other’s side, giving each other stability and peace.
because i know that this kind of trust is not something that can be built easily, i respected your relationship even more.
just as the two of you have loved and respected each other beautifully for a long time, i hope that in your marriage, you will continue to cheer each other on, quietly embrace each other no matter what happens, and — compared to when you were dating — move forward with a little more responsibility.
with both of your bright energies coming together, i have no doubt that you will live happily and joyfully.
rado oppa, since you have briefly entered a place with many sisters-in-law, please always stay alert, and please take good care of our bomi.
it was truly an honour to deliver these congratulatory words to two people whom i cherish and love so much. i’m really looking forward to the future the two of you will create together.
i will support you for life.
sometimes, among the members, we would jokingly asks..
‘who among us will get married first?’
‘who will we end up marrying?’
but i still can’t believe the day has come where i’m standing here giving a wedding speech.
when i first saw bomi during her wedding dress fitting, so many emotions i couldn’t even describe came over me.
i met bomi when we were 18, wearing school uniforms, and for the past fifteen years, like close friends and like sisters, we’ve gone through so many things together and shared countless emotions.
there were so many days where we cried and laughed together while chasing the same dream,
and now, we’ve become adults.
seeing bomi build a family with someone she truly loves felt so fascinating to me,
and at the same time, i thought bomi’s brave choice was incredibly admirable.
since she was young, bomi has always brightened the people around her with her cheerful energy.
so now, i hope bomi can live while focusing a little more on her own life and her own happiness too.
to bomi, who gave her very best for our team for 15 years, i sincerely congratulate and bless this new happiness that has come into your life.
now, besides us members, bomi has gained another lifelong person who will always be on her side.
so i hope you live happier than anyone else, and have lots of fun together.
eunji to bomi: “please be happy. love each other even more. we’ll support and cherish you for a long, long time. we’ll be by your side too. congratulations.”
😩😩😩 crying myself to sleep tonight goodnight