@littlered_xox I think it’s a fine word to use, as long as it’s not used to make someone feel bad. At the end of the day it’s a descriptive word. If someone used it to describe me, I’d be absolutely fine. I’m happy with the way I look so couldn’t care less if they used it or not!
Sex is how adults play. It’s an opportunity for us to release our inner child and let them run free. It doesn’t need to have a ton of emotional implications. If we can restructure our understanding as sex as a form of play, we can release ourselves from shame.