If you’re a hyperactive, high agency type of guy, the only path where you don’t go insane is entrepreneurship. It’s the only life that will stimulate you enough and put you in different situations and problems that actually make your brain function. The more you try to tame that energy the less you will feel alive. Some of us were made for complexity and ambiguity. The safe path is the most dangerous one. You know deep down you’re made for something different. Business is what gives you that. Avoid traditional jobs at all costs. Of course the price is high stress, uncertainty and lots of ups and downs… but let’s be honest, would you have it any other way? No. It’s too boring.
When you talk to a girl, get her to move with you →
Until she moves with you, it’s only the lowest of low stakes interactions:
🆇 She hasn’t committed to it
🆇 She hasn’t had to ask herself if she’s willing to invest
But move her, and suddenly she’s much more ‘in’:
✅ She’s mentally committed to talk with you
✅ She’s had to think about and decide to invest a little bit
WHY GET HER TO MOVE?
Moving girls not only shakes out the ‘polite chitchatters’ and the ‘flirtatious teases’ who were never going to do anything with you, but it also does something else for you, too:
It gets girls who were previously only thinking of the conversation with you as ‘social’ or ‘potential’ to mentally upgrade it to ACTUAL:
• “Oh… I guess I’m actually moving with this guy.”
• “Wow, why am I moving with him? Do I like him?”
• “He’s leading me around… and it feels pretty good!”
This can be surprising to her, and you can visibly see the change come across her face and body language when she moves with you and realizes it.
AFTER MOVING A GIRL...
In the clip below, I share an experience a mentorship client had a few weeks back (I listened to it after the fact — he recorded the approach audio for our call).
He’d approached a girl in a mall who sounded completely polite and disinterested on the approach and for the first two minutes. She was nice, she was being social, but everything about her voice tone and responses screamed, “I’m just having a polite convo with this guy.”
However, around two minutes in, he got her to move with him — just a few feet over, to get out of the main hall of the mall — and as soon as he did, the change in her voice and behavior was audible:
• She was much more engaged,
• Laughing a lot harder at his jokes,
• Telling him all about herself whenever he asked,
• And asking him things about himself as well.
Just listening to her, you could tell making the move switched her psychology from, “This is a nice, social conversation,” to, “Oh wow, is this an approach? And I am going along with it? I think this guy is kind of cool!”
Watch the clip below 👇🏻
If you want to hook more of the girls you approach, deemphasize your words & focus on your VIBE. The better you come across
✅ Comfortable
✅ Confident
✅ Natural
✅ Genuine
✅ Enthusiastic
✅ Curious
✅ A bit skeptical
✅ As being won over by her as she reveals more
… the faster and more profoundly you’ll hook the women you talk to.
Dating should be MUTUAL fun. Look for ways to:
• Talk about what you like in ways women enjoy.
• Discover things about women that intrigue you.
• Create humor you both get a kick out of.
• Touch her in ways you both find pleasurable.
Create MUTUAL enjoyment & date BETTER!
@deepname99 Henlo ooga booga and happy freaking Q5 to all the brethren in THJ and the berasphere. It has been a ride for me since the hc mint and familiarizing myself with the culture. I will be ready for what happens sooooon.