this girl on TikTok said, "take care of yourself so you don't become a hater when you see a woman doing better than you." ... & she was right. a lot of women don't realize the hate they throw at other women is really unhealed envy. you're not mad at her, you're mad because she's doing what you keep saying you'll do but haven't had the discipline, mindset, or courage to start.
i have outgrown the friendship where i am invisible while you are living your life and suddenly visible the moment you need emotional support, a favor, or someone to fill the empty space. that dynamic is not friendship. it is just access and i am done providing it for free.
She just wants her whole nervous system to finally rest. She’s begging for a chapter where her spirit can breathe, her mind can slow down, and life finally feels gentle again.
They are ALWAYS rewriting HISTORY @suryabonaly1 was the FIRST TO EVER DO IT back in 1998 at the winter Olympics but it was banned until 2024 so she’s the FIRST TO DO IT 💯💯💯💯 #BlackHistory365✊🏻✊🏿✊🏼✊🏾
When Jhené Aiko said you gotta lose your mind just to find your peace of mind that is so true. You really have to go through a dark time, but there is definitely a light at the end of the tunnel.
You know, this is funny. This kind of proves that people will be interested in African stories, but they just don't like seeing Africans being the center characters in those stories.
Normalize the idea of not pressuring people to choose you. If someone, whether family or friend, feels perfectly fine without you in their life, let them have that freedom.