I have an older sister but she herself is abusive, even spreading lies about me to my parents (my mom let it spill that my sister told her that she taught me how to get a job years ago, that wasn't true.
We'd been friends for a very long time. I'd call him round or pudgy, he'd call me a gay or describe all the ways he'd fucked my mum, but his mum died, so I never crossed that line.