Chidimma Maryrose

Psychologist.. Real Estate Agent.. Jumia Sales Agent... Sagittarian.. Photography lover

[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

@talk2veee On point

[Peter Obi @PeterObi]

Is Nigeria cursed, or are we the curse?

The past 10 days in Nigeria have witnessed unprecedented negative news, a level of chaos, insecurity, and institutional decay that should trouble the conscience of all the leaders.

Our country is now going through troubling times, not by fate, but by our collective leadership failures that allow insecurity, lawlessness, and institutional decay to thrive. Each day confronts us with a new tragedy and a new reminder that our beloved country is drifting amid a clear absence of competent, compassionate, responsive and responsible leadership.

We have all watched a nation blessed with people of strength and resilience drift into avoidable disorder. We should be asking ourselves: Are we cursed, or are we the curse?

The past 10 Days in Nigeria

1.11/11/25 – 6 senior directors from the Ministry of Defence were kidnapped along the Kogi axis, reminding us that even those tasked with securing our nation are no longer safe.

2.15/11/25 – A senior military officer, a Brigadier General, was brutally executed, a grave signal of the danger engulfing both civilians and security personnel.

3.16/11/25 – 64 civilians, including women and children, were abducted in Zamfara, with innocent lives also lost in the attack.

4. 17/11/25 – 25 schoolgirls, young children with dreams and innocence, were abducted in Kebbi and their Vice Principal was killed, adding to the heartbreaking list of attacks on our nation’s future.

5. 18/11/25 – Worshippers praying peacefully in a church in Kwara State were violently disrupted, with some killed and about 38 abducted. A place of worship, meant to be a sanctuary, became a scene of fear.

6. 18/11/25 – A disturbing crisis unfolded at the PDP Wadata Plaza headquarters. Instead of de-escalation, elements within the security agencies worsened the situation and further instigated it. Rather than focusing on protecting citizens, the government watched with amusement, encouraging the destruction of political parties and the weakening of our democracy.

7. 18/11/25 – During the All Nigeria Judges’ Conference, judges who should embody neutrality and integrity were seen standing as the APC partisan song “On Your Mandate We Shall Stand” played ahead of the President’s address. This troubling moment further eroded public trust in institutions expected to protect the rule of law.

8. 19/11/25 – Soldiers heading to rescue the Kebbi State abducted schoolgirls were ambushed, showing once again how undersupported our security forces have become.

9. 21/11/25 – Nigerians awoke to the devastating news that over 300 schoolchildren and 12 teachers were abducted from a Catholic school in Niger State.

10.22/11/25 – Bandits opened fire on farmers in Kaduna killing one of them.

23/11/25- Terrorists Ambush, Gun Down 5 Police Officers, Injure 2 in Sabon Sara, Darazo LGA, Bauchi State
November 23, 2025

And just as I was speaking about this, I received yet another devastating report about the abduction of 13 female farmers in Askira-Uba LGA of Borno State today by suspected Boko Haram/ISWAP Terrorists.

No serious nation survives on excuses, indifference, or absentee leadership. What we are witnessing is not inevitable, it is the direct consequence of we the leaders not valuing human life. Nigeria is bleeding because those elected to protect the nation have chosen comfort over courage, politics over people, and power over purpose.

We the leaders must remember that governance is not a title, it is a duty to protect every child, every community, and every citizen. We need competence, compassion, and a government that shows up when it matters the most.

To every Nigerian shaken in these past 10 days, my heart is with you.
You deserve safety, you deserve peace.
We deserve a government that values our lives above politics.
Nigeria must rise again.

A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO

[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

@ola_of_lagos_1 @instablog9ja Lol

[James Lucas @JamesLucasIT]

Thread of photographers who patiently waited to capture the shot of a lifetime 🧵

1. Leonardo Sens (3 years)

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Let's have it

[Jaypee @JaypeeGeneral]

Go and verify ✅✅✅

[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

@OneJoblessBoy ❤️ ❤️

[@𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 @OneJoblessBoy]

For the second time in days, Phyno joins Burna Boy on stage.

[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

@Wizarab10 Lol

[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

@TundeTASH Lol

[𝙋𝙖𝙢𝙢𝙮 ✨️ @_Pammy_DS_]

Removing yourself from situations when you feel weird vibes, negative energy, or sneaky sh*t is self-care.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Japa loneliness is a real thing & it's not funny - and it is mostly not sexual.

We underestimate the impact of social interactions

Those mama selling provisions, your bike guy gisting you, your guy living two streets away.

Let me take it apart with context and other instances.

[First Doctor @FirstDoctor]

Today,

1. Eat 2 eggs
2. Sleep 6-9 hrs
3. Take a walk in nature
4. Eat at least 1 fruit
5. Climb stairs, avoid the lift
6. Drink 2-3 litres of water
7. Get 30 mins of sunlight
8. Don't take things personally
9. Spend quality time with family or friends
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[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

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[Chidimma Maryrose @Maryking912]

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[Aproko Doctor Global @aproko_doctor]

You can't avoid stress.

It will affect every aspect of your life, especially if you live in Lagos

Those moments in traffic, the driver that cuts in front of you, the hectic job schedule, deadline, etc

Your body starts to release hormones that put your body