Don't marry because your age mates are marrying. Their responsibilities won't be yours to carry.
Build a life that can accommodate a family. Don't create a family and pray life accommodates you.
Son, don't marry to prove you're a man. Even poverty can produce wedding photos. Before you produce children, make sure your dreams aren't still breastfeeding.
The one spreading rumours about you forgot the day you paid their school fees. They held a meeting about your character. Meanwhile three people you helped quietly prayed for you tonight.
Don't argue with people who've already decided who you are. Keep being the person who shows up. Time is a better lawyer.
As soon as it becomes clear that you’re competing with me, I will let you have a hollow win. I don’t compete. I don’t do things for attention or recognition.
Heavenly Father, thank You for the people who remembered us when we had nothing impressive to offer. Thank You for opportunities that came through unexpected conversations and for the kindness of people who opened doors without demanding anything in return.
As the weekend begins, we pray for those who feel forgotten. Some have sent applications without receiving replies. Others have watched colleagues get promoted while their own contributions remain invisible. Some have the qualifications but lack the connections.
Father, this Saturday, protect our hearts from envy and bitterness. Help us keep developing our abilities even when recognition is delayed. May we never become so desperate to be noticed that we compromise our integrity.
Your Word says, "Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time." (1 Peter 5:6).
Do it again, Father. You called David from the fields while everyone else seemed to be looking elsewhere. His family had not even considered him for the occasion, but You knew where he was.
Remember those whose names have not yet been mentioned in the rooms where opportunities are decided.
In Jesus' name we pray. AMEN.
When you see a man or a woman just talking about other people, know they are running away from themselves. People who like to talk about other people... In their private moment, they're empty, they're lonely, they're sad, they're angry.
You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete. - R. Buckminster Fuller
A man may never ask for help. That doesn't mean he doesn't need it. Watch the man who keeps saying “I’m good” while his voice quietly resigns from the conversation.