We can no longer get mad about anybody else actions. If your mother ain't mothering, father ain't fathering, partner ain't parterning, friends ain't moving like friends? We gotta let it go. We are only in control of our own life. Heal & proceed with the life you want.
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That's why I really don't like being mistreated or played with. If you aren't genuine, don't even bother me, Just move around.