Apparently only the side chicks kids are supposed to be protected
Thr kids in the marriage must have their worlds turned upside down and be ok with it
Imagine seeing your mother cry daily and they forcefully introduce your ugly half sibling
This thing is so simple. Side chicks do not owe the wife any loyalty, and wives do not owe the side chick any kindness or inclusion when they decide to procreate with married men. If you are knowingly sleeping with a married man, and have no regard for his wife, if fall pregnant don’t expect her to have any regard for you or the child you bring into the situation. It may not make sense to us but how people decide to navigate and negotiate their marriages and forgiving their partners is between the partners, unfortunately they don’t have to extend any of that kindness to anyone else, even if we feel like it’s the moral thing to do. The only person who should be expected to extend any love or care is the father.
FYI - the maintenance of an extra marital child is the exclusive responsibility of the parent of the child. Neither the wife or the joint estate is legally obligated to pay maintenance, even if married ICOP.