Imagine finally meeting someone and there's no confusion. No disappearing acts. No decoding cryptic texts. No wondering where you actually stand.
Just two grown adults who genuinely like each other… Revolutionary!!!
"The goal is not to become impossible to hurt.
The goal is to become strong enough to survive hurt without losing your identity.
You should be capable of deep love.
You should also be capable of walking away.
Both abilities matter."
From my book: THE PRICE OF BEING A MAN
What It Really Costs to Build Purpose, Power, Discipline, Love and a Life Worth Living
ADVICE FROM GRANDMA ON HOW TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE:
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
There's a difference between being disciplined and being depleted. Discipline means knowing when to work. It also means knowing when to recover. You cannot build something sustainable by constantly operating at 100%.
Some days are for acceleration.
Some days are for maintenance.
Some days are for rest.
Rest isn't abandoning the mission.
Rest is part of the mission.
You are allowed to stop choosing people who only choose you when they need comfort. You are more than a familiar place to land. You are more than a person who makes the hard days easier. You deserve to be loved on the days you have nothing to give.