TheMasterCommeth

- Dominant. Tist. Kink coach. Educator.
- Beyond public posts, coaching is not free.
- No current availability for personal subs.
- DM to enquire. Be patient.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

I currently have no availability for personal submissives.

I’ve very happily given out the last of my trial collars to a pup who deserves the opportunity.

I prefer quality over quantity, and reward effort with effort.

Please don’t ask to be a personal submissive when you DM.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@tod19964 It’s a very interesting take. Thank you for sharing it 🙏

When I pose a seminar question in my classes (or indeed on social media), I’m looking to encourage healthy discussion/debate.

Everyone brings different life experience to the table is what’s most interesting!

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

From a recent seminar:

“Setting aside the idea of topping and bottoming, unpack the difference in your mind between active dominance and passive dominance, active submission and passive submission”

Discuss!

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@fagtarnmakmorn Telling me about my qualities is good. There’s a difference between noting a persons way of being and doing, and it being an ego stroking exercise…

And I want to hear about a subs feelings towards me, not their feelings on submission, which could be carried Dom to Dom.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

“Why do you want to submit/continue submitting to me?”

When I ask this question I’m not looking for a list of why they feel good as a submissive, and I’m not looking for an ego boost.

D/s dynamics, for me, are about connection. I want to know I’m a conscious choice, and why.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@moonbrightsky Thank you for the detailed unpacking 🙏

There’s something quite beautiful about that art.

I want them.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

In today’s seminar:

“A submissive does not need to feel pleasure to serve. A dominant doesn’t need to feel pleasure to dominate.”

Discuss!

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@tod19964 I read each of your segments before I replied, and they each contained a comment on tops, bottoms or both.

I was just curious.

For some people, topping/bottoming is inseparable from their conceptualisation of D/s dynamics.

As a side, it matters to me much less.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@TheShortSub It was the wrong doctor 😭

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@TheShortSub Oh no…

you completely naked?…

What a travesty 👀

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@moonbrightsky Thanks for unpacking a little more 🙏

Idealistic, but achievable, would you say?

How do you personally differentiate between when you are intentionally forgetting self for another, and when you are people pleasing?

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@tod19964 Thank you for contributing 🙏

Curious that, when the frame of the question asked you to set aside topping and bottoming and focus on active/passive dominance and active/passive submission, you contributed quite a lot on topping and bottoming…

I wonder if you could share why?

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@fagtarnmakmorn Thank you for unpacking that a bit more for me 🙏

I tend to be quite “hands on” in my training…

But I can empathise with that last bit, in that sometimes I just want to be served.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@TheShortSub Two gowns?! In this economy?!

No wonder the NHS is going to pot 😂

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@moonbrightsky Thank you for your contribution 🙏

“A sense of inner calm or wholeness”…

Could you say more about this, please?

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@fagtarnmakmorn Thank you for your contribution 🙏

It’s interesting that the frame of the question was about “setting aside the idea of topping and bottoming”…

And your mind has gone straight to a very enthusiastic unpacking of your views on penetration…

I wonder why that is 🤔

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@fagtarnmakmorn Sometimes talking at the crucial times is what’s important, and yet sometimes, it’s the important things that matter, and we should be talking about them long before it feels like it’s crucial to do so.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

Tip for Doms and Subs:

I’m often heard/seen saying “we don’t leave the unsaid unsaid”…

It’s a philosophy I live by in my relationships.

Let’s get rid of ideas like “an experienced Dom should just know”, or “a good sub doesn’t have needs”…

Talk about it.

You’ll be amazed.

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@talionhastoys @dmd0_2 Your lil high pitched, high energy voice will never cease to be cute 🐱

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@WillHartley1980 Romance 🥰

[TheMasterCommeth @MasterCommeth]

@jaydenkinky Yes…

But “weird” isn’t a synonym for “bad”.