Tappei Nagatsuki (Re:Zero author) said:
"If Subaru landed in the world of KonoSuba, he would probably fall head over heels for Aqua right away. Because Subaru has the same taste as me, and I love Aqua"
Men are continiously doing things to accommodate us while women say "that's what real men should do" or "it's the bare minimum".
Men are expected to give up their seats after a hard day of work for a woman.
Men are expected to help with heavy items, like her shopping bags or her luggage with her items.
Men are expected to walk on the outside of a sidewalk, closer to traffic, for her safety.
Men are expected to bring her home safely.
Men are expected to offer their jacket if she's cold, even if it's because she's underdressed for the weather.
Men are expected to hold his umbrella over her when it rains.
Men are expected to do alot of things for women that are not expected of women to do for men.
So complaining about how room temperatures are not accomodating women and having a problem with it when we can easily put on an extra sweater while men can't sit shirtless at an office, THAT is ridiculous to argue.
People also need to realize that just because an ideology is promoted within the narrative/world of the story doesn't mean the author is saying you should 1:1 think that way in real life.
When Thorfinn says "I have no enemies" and becomes a pacifist that is not the author telling you never fight back or stand up for yourself/others.
Most Japanese manga/video games are written by one or a small team of people and their messages are often more personal than broad political pandering like Marvel/DC and other Western stories. Usually life advice or lessons the author learned through their own experiences that they want to share with others.
Most of the time they're not playing a team sport and that's a good thing, and that's why Japanese storytelling has been broadly better and more popular in the west for some time now.
Not saying Japanese media NEVER makes political statements (Code Geass, AOT etc) but even then when they do, they're usually more fleshed out than "racism bad*