i realized that no one, not even my mother or closest friends knows what iβm actually like in the inside of my head, and the only person who actually knows who i am is me
birthdays will be a huge deal in my household. i don't want my children to EVER refer to the day they were born as just another day. that breaks my heart.
It always amazes me how you can almost always feel it in your soul when itβs time. Time for change, time to move on from certain people, time to get rid of unhealthy habits. Just time to want more for yourself. Thereβs a point where you just know and can feel it.
i am FULLY against the sentiment that we don't owe anybody anything.
we owe people common decency. we owe people respect if it has been given to us. we owe people apologies and explanations when we hurt them. i don't care.
You have to be comfortable with the fact that people, especially your friends, will mess up.
Not every offense should be a dealbreaker. Not every slight is a reason to cut people off.
if I'm having a tough conversation with you, it's because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so l can keep you in it. I'm not attacking you.