as a girl, constantly dating new people in the hopes of finding love is masculine. no trust in the universe. no faith that it will happen effortlessly & magically. a flower does not worry about attracting her bee. she blooms & the bee arrives by the will of the divine.
If you withdraw, shut down, or isolate when you are overwhelmed, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. When you were a child, you could’ve been left to handle intense emotions by yourself or not taught to self regulate so now you always feel you need to be alone to cope.
Some people refuse to see the new you because they are the old them. The truth is, what they refuse to see in you is what they refuse to feel about you. Detach from them. Be with people who want to see and experience the new you, not their outdated comfort zone version of you.
Some people get offended when you confront them with issues you have with them. If they're not willing to repair a broken bond, detach from them. Be with people who are not afraid of difficult conversations to resolve conflicts, solve problems, and build a better future with you.
At some point you just got to tell people, I love you, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to remove myself. I’m not even asking you to change.
@oopzallberryz Went against the grain for that tramp even burnt the trap house down (by accident…allegedly) just for her to slide off wit rich cuz smh bogus !!!