queerness isn’t as rigid as a lot of u think it is. let people just exist and if they’re ready to label themself then sick. it’s not anyone else’s place to make that decision for them. idk how many more times we have to go thru this shit until it clicks for some of u
the way i’ve seen so many “i feel bad now” type posts… like no stfu. y’all only feel bad now that u got what u wanted and forced someone to address their sexuality after years of harassment online. U ARE THE SCARY SOCIETY! NOBODY OWES U SHIT!
“The real truth about my life and sexuality is that, man I’m just figuring it out like everyone. I don’t really know sometimes and I know other times. It feels really scary because we live in a society that has a lot to say about that.”
— Shawn Mendes
best compliment i’ve received recently was my doctor saying they were concerned prescribing me new anxiety meds that might make it harder to nut bc i’m “a handsome young man”