Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going
stay away from people who don’t appreciate all the little things you do. like spending money you really don’t have, paying for food, giving a ride,etc even good intentioned prayers, words of encouragement, listening to problems & making them your own, being the first to reach out
You disrespect yourself when you rekindle a relationship that humiliated you. Forgiveness is one thing but you have to have boundaries. You can’t always be nice. That’s how people take advantage of you. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.
GIRLLLL life goes on. you might end up a single mom. you might lose your job. you might lose a few friends. whatever it is, you have to pick yourself back up & keep it pushing. never feel embarrassed for the things you go through in life +
This lady on TikTok shared video of her dad handing her over to her husband and the dad said so many nice things to the guy but he also said this "if one day, u ever have a change of heart, that u don't love my daughter anymore, please don't hurt her, just bring her back to me"🥺