Saida is just an idiot. We all know that. Why anybody listens to her is beyond me.
Sarah Martins is being clever by half. The usual conditional stupid advice. There is always an "If." "Do this for him only IF......" Nonsense!
Marriage is a covenant. There is no IF. There is no BUT. You have a responsibility to be there for your partner in every condition, everyday, 24/7. If you are not ready to commit your life to loving a person, don't date/marry them. As soon as you enter, you have a responsibility to them - to love and to cherish. It is not a conditional responsibility. There is no such thing as "only IF." WTF is only if he has been a provider man? You are to be there for your husband because TWO has become ONE under a covenant, not because he has been a Provider man. If he was poor at the beginning of the marriage, or business crashed, or he lost his job, you will not love him by stepping up?
I think the fucked up part is that men are expected to understand this and accept it as yall nature whether we like it or not… but yall refuse to consider certain desires are our nature as well… discipline has to go both ways or no way.
The month is still young, but this is, by far, the most striking and immersive piece I’ve read all month. Jean writes in a way that is profound without the words themselves trying too hard to be. There is something about his writing that forces you to sit with it, to stare at the page until you have reached the very last word. I’ve pleaded with him several times to join X, but he has remained hesitant. I suppose that’s what happens when you are already the biggest writer on another platform; building an audience somewhere else can feel like starting all over again. Regardless, he is a phenomenal writer, one I admire more deeply than I can quite put into words.
Read his exceptional piece here: https://t.co/yYXIcS6z4P
Wrote an essay on the Cornell Seven, titled "The Sixty That Looked Away". Substack has age-restricted the essay, so it cannot grow organically unless it takes off on X or elsewhere. Please help me spread it, it matters: https://t.co/q1ZF1xxsL9
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When a woman divorces a responsible father, she keeps the children away from him because she knows she will hurt him.
When a woman divorces a deadbeat father, she forces him to be in the life of the children and even calls him out online for being absent.
Life is funny 😄
I swear to you, we actually don't care.
There are vast differences between us and our experiences:
1. Our skulls aren't lodging spots for the bullets of Arkansas and Kentucky troopers,
2. We don't have to give our boys lessons on how to drive while black.
Lmaoo. Fuck off.
A LOT OF WOMEN WON’T LIKE THIS but gents it is tricky to love a woman who has suffered in life. Suffering makes them really cold, dark and masculine compared to men who literally experienced same.
The reality is a man who went through suffering becomes soft with his approach, gives a helping hand to the people around him but a woman, becomes hard and focuses more on herself.
A man will go to hell, come back and make sure no one goes to hell but a woman will go to hell, come back and make sure people end in hell. She literally wants to experience all she did in hell.
MOST STRUGGLING WOMEN THAT MADE IT OUT ARE VIPERS‼️
A meet with them, will shape you.
RCCG is the worst church in this country, I told you all religion is a scam, listen to the experience a former assistant pastor in that same church shared with me, so pathetic 💔