⚽️ A youth football coach has gone viral for saying this on social media:
🗣️ “Don’t leave kids on the bench for an entire game just because your ego can’t handle losing.
Nobody will remember the result of an U11 match in a few years.
BUT the kids will remember how you made them feel!”
🤔 𝗗𝗘𝗕𝗔𝗧𝗘: Do you agree with him?
Women are really smarter than we give them credit for. 😂
Everything they do for a man, or anything concerning a man, seems to come with a carefully worded set of conditions. “If I genuinely love him.” “When I’m comfortable with him.” “If he makes me feel safe.” “When I know his intentions are genuine.” “If he proves that he deserves it.” “When I feel emotionally connected to him.” “If he treats me well.” “When he has earned my trust.” “Men are initiators; women are reciprocators.”
There is always a prerequisite, a condition, or a threshold that has to be crossed before the woman is expected to give anything. You have to love your man before you spoil him. You have to feel safe before you open up. You have to trust him before you become vulnerable. You have to be comfortable before you start going out of your way for him.
Yet somehow, a man who has just met you, exchanged numbers with you, and started talking to you is expected to start demonstrating “intentionality” immediately. He is expected to spend, pursue, plan, prove his seriousness, show consistency, and make you feel special before he has even been given enough time or opportunity to establish whether there is anything worth investing in. 😂😂😂
The asymmetry is fascinating. The woman’s effort is often presented as something a man must first earn, while the man’s effort is treated as something he should demonstrate from the very beginning.
God sees all. 😂
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, "Never play fair in a game where others cheat." It doesn't mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they'll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
This is generally how human beings are wired. I doubt he also checks up on his friends who are currently struggling and off the radar. People serve their own interests and needs above anyone else. The acceptance of this reality brings its own peace and serenity.
The Most Motivational Speech you will see before hitting the Bed tonight. Muniba Mazari 🔥🔥🔥
The Only Difference Between a Good Day & a Bad One is your Attitude... Be Positive ❤️
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