Don’t try to make sense of people who say they want one thing one day and the opposite thing the next. There’s no logic in it. You’ll just give yourself a headache.
Cruel humor is often aspirational.
It imagines a self that no longer needs to belong because it has decided who belongs.
It allows a person to inhabit a wish fulfillment fantasy where they are not the one getting laughed at but the one doing the laughing. #psychology
@rushicrypto Immediate return hunter gatherer societies often produced well-regulated, mature, and socially skilled adults.
Modern society produces the opposite.
Metaphorically: “there’s something in the water.”
@Mach_Tactics There is some truth to this. Not necessarily treating most people like they’re stupid or undeveloped but understanding there is a profound disconnect between how highly intelligent people and more average folks process the world.
@glenn_tunes It’s a joke, right? Ha.
I wake up every morning and homosexual thoughts never enter my mind. I don’t have to choose anything, I just am. I think that’s what they call “actually straight.” Whatever this person is blabbing on about is called “actually gay.” Not “patriotism.”
@ImBreckWorsham It’s a uniparty. The Us v Them shit is “entertainment” for the folks at home. The only difference is the timeline toward destruction. One face will try to stabilize the status quo into a polite decline while the other is willing to escalate to capture more of the board.
Emotional maturity…
Unfortunately, it doesn’t always come with age. Just like wisdom - age often comes alone.
Emotional maturity… what is it?
It’s not about “not feeling.” And it’s not about “being calm all the time.”
It’s the ability to feel deeply without drowning in it. To respond without destroying. To choose your behavior instead of acting on impulse. To take responsibility for your emotions instead of projecting your pain onto circumstances or other people.
It’s when a pause appears between stimulus and reaction - in that pause, there is you.
Not trauma.
Not an automatic defense.
Not a childhood pattern.
But a conscious choice.
It’s anger without humiliation.
Jealousy without control.
Fear without manipulation.
Vulnerability that is not equal to weakness.
It’s not the absence of pain - it’s the ability to endure it and transform it into something constructive.
It matters in relationships, in self-realization and money, in trading, and in your inner world as a whole.
Relationshipsz without emotional maturity turn into a battlefield: who’s right, who’s wrong, who owes what.
Maturity brings respect for boundaries, honesty, calmness, and depth. Without maturity, love turns into dependency. With maturity, love becomes freedom.
In trading, for example, the inability to manage emotions like fear, greed, resentment, or euphoria turns a trader into a puppet of the market - or more simply, into liquidity - and they continue losing money.
Maturity allows you to take a loss without drama. To lose without the desire to revenge trade. Not to double your position to satisfy your ego. Not to destroy your system because of one bad day. It is the foundation of discipline.
Without maturity, a person lives in constant reaction:
Someone looked at you the wrong way - pain, offense.
Someone didn’t reply - anxiety.
Someone is more successful - envy.
With maturity comes stability.
You’re not shaken by every wind.
You don’t become cold or made of steel - you become grounded.
The childish position says:
“He pushed me to this.”
“The market killed me.”
“I was just unlucky.”
The adult position says:
“I chose this.”
“This is the result of my reaction.”
“I can change this.”
Emotional maturity is not something you’re born with. It’s a skill.
It grows through honesty with yourself and others, through facing pain instead of avoiding it, through working with your triggers, through awareness.
It’s a path. And it is this path that makes a person calm, deep, balanced, strong, and reliable.
I forced a trade last session and paid market tuition for the lesson. It was on Gold. I’m calling it my “Gold Standard Lesson.”
Lessons can be just as profitable as wins. Accountability is key. If you can’t look your mistakes in the eye, you’re doomed to repeat them. #trading
@PhilVenables1@NTDPlus_ You stance is far too simple to be “facts.” There’s a hell of a lot more nuance than “we’re all still roasting under the economy Biden created.” While Biden’s economy fits into the story, it is merely one variable among many.
Uneasy alliance between:
-Tech NRx elites want post-democratic corporate governance
-Religious right wants theocracy
-MAGA populists want manufacturing jobs back and cultural dominance restored
-Old money conservatives want deregulation
The tech elites will get what they want
@rushicrypto And it is perverse. Humans did not evolve to live this way, hence all the instability and psychological disorders that follow.
Remember Folks: you have one precious life. Take the time to figure out what really matters, and then do the work to live that way.