if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
i never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, and if you can't find her, don't use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
My version of being spoiled ain’t about the money… it’s about how you treat me. How gentle you are, how you talk to me, how you cater to me, how you love me, protect me, and pour into me. Anybody can spend money. Not everybody knows how to make you feel loved. That’s the real luxury.
Unfortunately my body won't let me sleep with multiple people😩 Even when I'm single. It just ain't in me. Realizing that A dry phone means standards & boundaries have been set & you ain't out here dealing with just anybody💯 SELF LOVE Is Always Personal ❤️
I ain’t never claimed to be innocent. 😭 I’ll tell you exactly where I was wrong. I’ll apologize when I mean it. I’ll own my attitude, my mouth, my decisions. What I WON’T do is let somebody paint me like I woke up and randomly chose violence. 😂 Every version of me somebody hates was created by an experience they conveniently leave out. I’m not proud of every reaction… but I know exactly what triggered it. That’s the difference.
I sit quietly and realize that God has been taking care of me this whole time. Maybe not in luxurious ways. Maybe not an easy life. But through protection,provision, good health, surviving hard days and always having just enough to keep going.
i never want a man to settle for me. go find your dream woman. and if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. i need mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, GOD fearing, and locked in on me only.
One thing people get wrong about me is thinking because I don’t react immediately, I don’t notice. Oh, I notice EVERYTHING. I just don’t believe every situation deserves an argument. Sometimes I let people keep talking. I let them keep lying. I let them keep pretending… because eventually everybody tells on themselves. By the time they think they got away with it, I’ve already accepted who they are and started moving accordingly. Silence don’t always mean weakness… sometimes it means your access is quietly being revoked.
Everyone talks about distancing yourself from someone, but no one talks about the grief in having to stand firm on a decision knowing it's not what you want, but it's what you need for your and THEIR well being.
Accept that it didn’t work out. Accept that you were incompatible. Accept that they weren’t able to love you the way you needed. Accept that they simply weren’t your person. And then let go of the anger it’s only weighing you down. Yes, it hurts. But you can’t force something to fit where it doesn’t belong. What’s meant for you won’t require that much suffering just to hold onto it.
Don’t let your world revolve around a man who isn’t choosing you consistently. If he didn’t call, let the night end in peace. If he didn’t text, return your attention to your own life. If he leaves you on read, don’t stare at silence, step away from it. If he isn’t making an effort, don’t keep making excuses for him. Your energy isn’t something to be negotiated for scraps of attention. Your happiness should never wait on someone who treats you as an option. Choose yourself early, quietly and without apology.
God is saying to you today: Never forget, I am always with you. In the good times and the bad times, on the mountaintops and in the valleys, in joy and in tears, in blessings and in trials. Whatever you are going through, I am right there with you every step of the way. Trust Me to take care of you in every season of your life.