@Lady_Beemer Fat is okay. Lazy is tolerable at times. You're not a slob ma'am. Prolly not gonna see this but whoever calls your "mess" a mess hasn't seen their mess. There's clean messes and there's "I know where my stuff is" mess. You do a fantastic job and I hope you see this. Live life!
@Lich_VT Yo I just seen this and it instantly broke me as a man. I can't imagine what pain you're going through but just know I along with anyone who reads this are here for you. My condolences and take whatever time away that you need. Be safe.