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[ChrisHaze Arts 🎨 @PrinceChrisMUFC]

New art: A dying flame’s last dance.🔥

[Don Jay of Arsenal @Donjaytrix001]

Y’all are hoes please 😂😂😂😂

Quit the good woman gimmick already

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Once you experience a woman who involves her finances in the relationship and equally pays for shit, you can never go back.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Having options + Self-confidence > Being loved at home

You can be loved at home and still be acting like an otondo

But when you have options and you’re self-confident, you nogo too mumu like that.

[Yehgha @yaygha]

Still not a problem.

"You seem distant. Do you still love me?"
"I've been very busy with work/hustle. How are you?"

Never answer the "do you still love me question" Reassurance is, generally speaking, counterproductive.

Then when you're up again, casually reference that time you were distant and give her the gist of what you were dealing with (assuming she can relate to it)

Run that loop a couple of times and she'll get the memo. The next time you seem distant, she'll assume you're fighting a battle, predict that you will win like you won the last one you told her about, admire you for maintaining a composed, sanguine exterior, and appreciate that you didn't burden her with it.

She may even feel bad that that whatever you're dealing with she isn't sufficiently useful to be brought into it because she is not capable enough to materially help.

Better for your distant moments to raise questions about her utility than spotlight your limitations.

Much easier to do when you're with a woman who is less solipsistic than the average woman. And I say that because, in my judgment, "You seem distant. Do you still love me?" stems from a highly self-centred frame of mind.

If her her instinctive response to your distance is to make it about herself and her interests; "Do you still love me?", you're dealing with a girl who is intensely preoccupied with herself - even by female standards.

However, I digress.

Point is, emotionally low-maintenance women do not only understand periods of distance during perceived difficult times, they're also more likely to provide moral support by taking the initiative and keeping communication alive while you're fighting your battles

Ultimately, much of this comes down to the energy you have introduced her to (if you call her everyday, then she will expect you to maintain it), the kind of woman you choose and your ability to condition her.

The quality of a woman is to a significant degree, a reflection of the quality of her man.

[ajay @1meajay]

some kind wins nor go move you because e suppose don arrive tey tey.

you just thank god and say to yourself "on to the next" and keep it moving.

[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

To the weak guys who play fatherly roles in their relationships, pay rent for their girlfriends, send their girlfriends to school, and still put them on monthly allowance, Happy Father’s Day.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Reward from who?

[Yehgha @yaygha]

He's not there yet.

The best approach is to deal with your issues first, and then when you're done, tell her.

That will mean there will be less time and energy for her, so when she complains about it, tell her something else... Anything, she'll take it.

Then disclose what truly happened after you have solved the problem.

Why?

Because a man in the middle of a struggle looks uncertain and uncertainty creates doubt.

But a man who has prevailed looks competent and competence inspires attraction.

Solve the problem

Slay the dragon

Return with the head then give her the gist.

Stories of conquest inspire confidence. Reports of struggle to an audience that cannot help you fight, does not.

So it is counterproductive telling her your problems when YOU KNOW she cannot solve them.

But in the atypical case that YOU KNOW she can solve it, you may tell her.

[Yehgha @yaygha]

"You're the man"

So you have to pay rent, school fees and provide food

Yet your wife makes house rules for you, decides when you come home and if your siblings can visit

When it's time for responsibilities "You're the man"
When it's time for authority, madam becomes the man

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

As a Man…

If you’ve ever sent a Lady that is not your Wife to school(with hopes of marrying her later)

Best believe you’re a pure and applied ekuke.

Now here’s the gag..

That it later ended in marriage doesn’t make it a ‘W’.. Doesn’t change the fact that you’re an id!ot.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Recently, my mom was on admission. Everyday, myself, my siblings and my dad were at the hospital. We kept her company till 10pm before we dispersed, with one person staying back overnight.

Everyday, I looked around and saw the entire family and I smiled. It made me realized part of the ressons I hated living abroad. Your love one is sick and all you can do is send money. Meanwhile, your heart is beating fast because you cant see them. There is celebration or random Sunday family gathering and you are the only one missing. The reason I always show up in person for anything is that money cannot fill the place of presence. It is the memories we share that lingers.

Many families can't gather together anymore for celebration or caregiving. The only time some families can gather now is burial, and even burial no dey see complete family again. Nigeria has to work for the next generation. They deserve to gather around with their cousins, nephews, nieces, aunts, uncles, parents, and grandparents on a random Sunday.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

If you are a man in need, write what you need in the comment. Every man should pick a man they can show love to.

Let the love go round. Raise am 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[INDUSTRY MACHINE ⚙️ @Odumodublvck_]

BABES NEW FORMAT NA “I ACTED LIKE THAT BECAUSE YOU COULD NOT LEAD”

YOU BE GOAT?

ALL THE LEAD WEY YOUR PAPA TAKE TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU BE TODAY

YOU WAN MAKE I STILL DEY LEAD YOU ON TOP YOUR OWN JONZING WEY YOU JONZE

JUST BE FUCKING ACCOUNTABLE.

I SHOULD LEAD YOU OUT OF STUPIDITY

LEAD YOU OUT OF STUBBORNNESS

LEAD YOU OUT OF YOUR OWN WILLINGNESS TO REMAIN A GOAT.
SILLY GIRLS.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

“If you do this for a girl, she will become soft”

“If you do so so so, she will become feminine”

Who even sold it to you clowns that it’s the duty of any Man you’re meeting to help you become your natural self ?

God that naturally created you a Woman didn’t create you well or what ? That you always need any Man you meet to help you unlock something feminine in you ?

All the affection your Dad and every male figure in your life had shown to you growing up, how come they weren’t enough to make you soft ?

Bloody criminals!

In fact, if you ever become feminine, God will punish you.. Pls remain a raving mad dog for your family and the person that will end up with you pumpkin.❤️❤️

[Yehgha @yaygha]

"Educate the girl child"

The girl child has been educated and has more opportunities than the boy child

But she does not want to pay rent in the house she lives with her 'partner'

She will disrespect him if she pays but expects him to respect her when he pays

MMS

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Very yeye and anyhow people. Nonsense

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

@larap7468 Now in cases where the wife is having delays getting pregnant

The Man has every right to NOT provide since she’s practically useless in that union

Yay or Nay ?

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

@larap7468 Very good!.. We’re heading somewhere with this..

If ‘provision’ was a special design..

Why do Women then go to school and have the ability to earn at all ?

But a Man can never give birth, only a Woman can.

That’s the definition of a ‘design’ from above

I hope you get it now

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

This nonsense you Women do gats stop…

If you have a problem with God, go and face him for making you a Woman that should naturally go through all these to give birth.

If you do not want to procreate, then simply DON’T.

You can’t list something that is a natural phenomenon from above and make it look like some sort of ‘virtue’ that you should be rewarded for

- An uneducated stack illiterate can do all these

- A deaf and dumb Woman can do all these

- A blind Woman can do all these

- Heck even a MAD WOMAN can do all these

Anyone that is a WOMAN can do all these just by natural design

So Gracious Onuoha, tell me..

How are you special to him ?