Having kids is so serious. I don’t think ppl understand that by the way everybody getting pregnant and so young. Kids are not an accessory. Being a parent is real life shit. It takes real life sacrifices, selflessness, financial stability, maturity and so much more.
Co-parenting with a healed woman means she’ll put that child’s peace first, even if you never once protected hers. She won’t be bitter, loud, or messy… just disciplined, detached, and focused. That’s growth.