I really cannot imagine the pain of having a baby by a man who begged me to have it, and then abandoning me / treating me like shit after it’s too late to get rid of it. I wouldn’t be able to mentally withstand that kind of pain, that’s one of the biggest reasons I’m childless.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance , holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, treats you with kindness and respect.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
HOT TAKE: Someone said “this is the first time in history women are dating men for their character. And that's why no one is dating.” and she was right.