Neni McCoy

Collecting Moments, Dancing Through Life & Documenting It All

[Neni McCoy @MccoyNeni]

Idk but with me you get what you give & I might just give it better, so move accordingly.

[tt✮⋆ @Bluebirdeyessss]

Unfortunately I’m not the type to go crazy or crash out anymore I’ll just look at you in disgust and move on with my life

[S. ✰ ✰ ✰ ✰ @shirlsssssss]

if you knew how hard people work to heal and regain their peace, you’ll understand boundaries

[Nicky💕 @jas_d_barbie]

“men are the providers” is crazy because most of us wouldn’t be alive if our mothers didn’t provide for us

[X @Xouy17]

I'm healing from shit, chilling from shit, & Dealing w/shit.. ALL at the same time.

[Hilton @HiltonSvante]

The best thing about struggling on your own is when you come up you don't owe nobody shit..

[Katalia @KatapillarK]

ladies if you have no kids, date a man with no kids.
believe me.

[• يمنى♡• @yumnah_elkhabir]

THISS

[Technical Ben @TechnicalBben]

Once you learn how to shop directly from China, E.g Temù or shien your wardrobe changes completely. Call me cheap I don't care I ain't rich, I don't do fraud.😭

It's knowing what to search for.

Here's my style after making plenty of mistakes.

1. T-shirts:

Skip 100% polyester unless you're buying gym wear.

Instead, search:
• 100% Cotton
• Combed Cotton
• Heavyweight Cotton
• 240-300 GSM Cotton
• Premium Cotton
• Mercerized Cotton

The heavier the GSM, the thicker and more premium the shirt usually feels.

2. Jeans:

Denim Jeans
Temu is surprisingly good for denim if you know what to search.

Search:
• Denim Jeans
• Cotton Denim
• Raw Denim
• Selvedge Denim (if available)
• 98% Cotton + 2% Elastane
• 99% Cotton

Avoid jeans with high polyester content. The more cotton, the better they'll age and feel.

3. Body-hug clothing:

Search:
• Ribbed Knit
• Modal
• Viscose Blend
• Cotton-Spandex Blend

They hold their shape much better than cheap polyester.

4. Hoodies
Search:
• 400 GSM
• French Terry
• Cotton Fleece
• Heavyweight Hoodie

5. Chains
Search:
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Titanium Steel
• PVD Gold Plated
• Vacuum Plated

These are far more resistant to fading than ordinary fashion jewelry.

6. Earrings
Search:
• 925 Sterling Silver
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Hypoallergenic
• Moissanite (if you're buying stones)

7. Scarves
Search:
• Mulberry Silk
• Silk Blend
• Cashmere Blend
• Wool Blend
• Viscose

Avoid the shiny, thin polyester scarves if you're after a premium look.

8. Loafers
Search:
• Genuine Leather
• Cow Leather
• Full Grain Leather (rare but worth looking for)
• Rubber Outsole

9. Sneakers
Search:
• Rubber Outsole
• EVA Midsole
• Breathable Mesh
• Leather Upper
• Stitched Sole

Pictures lie a lot

The description usually tells the truth.

Here's how I shop:

1. Read the material composition before anything else.

2. Sort by Most Orders or Best Selling, not cheapest.

3. Only buy products with lots of reviews or pictures or even better when a Nigerian has purchased it before they always tell the truth.

4. Read the 1-star reviews first. They'll tell you what the seller won't.

5. Look at customer photos, not the product photos.

6. Check the weight of the product. Better quality clothing is often heavier.

7. Read the size chart. Don't assume your Nigerian size matches.

8. If the title has words like "luxury," "premium," or "designer" but the material is 100% polyester, not everything but still move on.

Your best friend isn't the product picture.

It's the material, the reviews, and the customer photos.

That's how you separate the gems from the junk.

I hope this help.

Things are to expensive for a country this poor.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

all jokes aside y'all see why God said save sex for marriage..

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

Life taught me that people really are that horrible and they’ll do you like that

[tt✮⋆ @Bluebirdeyessss]

you will NOT disrespect me & then put limitations on how i disrespect you !

[idk luv, enjoy. @related_feels]

I overlook shade because mfs be projecting lmao go heal

[ً @artfuIchaos]

some people enter your life to show you how your boundaries need to be stronger than your empathy and love.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

i dislike overly sexual people fr.. like why is sex your only personality trait?! 😒

[Neni McCoy @MccoyNeni]

@ReezaySA Yes

[Neni McCoy @MccoyNeni]

@cyhrme I believe you

[Neni McCoy @MccoyNeni]

@Shopidiie Mines too girl loool

[Neni McCoy @MccoyNeni]

@YourBoiShu_ Let’s hear it !

[Bear @Beargirl_1]

The final stage of spirituality is having fun again, but this time you're awake inside the experience.

[J🍒 @Badgrlj__]

My momma always told me you can be dead ass right but the way you handle shit can make you wrong as well.