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When there's an order mismatch, there's disharmony and friction. It can either lead to fading away or a reordering of the other person's ( or in some cases even the person who isnt comfortable with the other's order recalibrating) priority order to find a new equilibrium
Isn't actually necessary that priority orders match ( for most kinds of relationships)- X can have Y high in the priority order while Y can have X low in the priority order ( above a certain threshold, below which it will fade anyway). It's about what is mutually confortable.
TOTD!
(IRL obviously) Each one of us has an implicit priority order of people ( including we ourself!) in our lives. Relationships ( in the broadest sense of the term) are harmonious and possibly even flourishing when there's mutual implied acceptance of each other's order.
When there's an order mismatch, there's disharmony and friction. It can either lead to fading away or a reordering of the other person's ( or in some cases even the person who isnt comfortable with the other's order recalibrating) priority order to find a new equilibrium
TOTD!
(IRL obviously) Each one of us has an implicit priority order of people ( including we ourself!) in our lives. Relationships ( in the broadest sense of the term) are harmonious and possibly even flourishing when there's mutual implied acceptance of each other's order.
TOTD!
(IRL obviously) Each one of us has an implicit priority order of people ( including we ourself!) in our lives. Relationships ( in the broadest sense of the term) are harmonious and possibly even flourishing when there's mutual implied acceptance of each other's order.