See eh, there was a time I wanted to break up with my wife when we were dating. This was around 2019.
She was beautiful quite alright, but not as beautiful as she looks now in this picture. She was much more darker, didn’t dress so well as I thought I would have liked.
What was the main reason I wanted to breakup? It was because of the kind of girls I saw on instagram.
Pretty dress to kill baddies on instagram. Those were the kind of girls I said I wanted to go for. Forgetting that those girls only post their best pictures, edits and makeup.
It was a discussion with a friend that saved me. He said, “when you make enough money, turn your babe into the instagram standard you want”. That was it.
Now I have the most naturally beautiful woman you can find, and she is everything a wife should be. Not these dragon feminists around.
I thank God everyday that I didn’t make that foolish mistake.
Young men looking to get married, you can go for looks oh, but it is not the ultimate.
Money will bring out that beauty in your woman.
I saw a woman on TikTok say she was a “good girl” her whole life. Did everything the “right” way. Followed the rules. Kept the peace. Put everyone else first.
Now she’s in her 40s and said all she feels like she has to show for it is grief and a lot of built-up anger.
And honestly… as a woman in her 20s, I felt that deeply . Because nobody really talks about how being the “good girl” often benefits everyone around you… except the actual good girl.
Everyone else gets the patience, the understanding, the sacrifice.
And she’s the one left realizing she spent years shrinking herself just to keep everyone else comfortable.
Actually, NOBODY likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about MENTAL HEALTH and how important it is but the moment you are depressed, people really start to distance themselves.
They see you as NEGATIVE, a BURDEN, and someone too HEAVY to handle.
Ngl adult friendships require GRACE. People are very busy. People are HEALING. People are GROWING. People are taking time for SELF CARE just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in don’t check out.
🔮TAURUS VIRGO CAPRICORN 🌎
someone close to you never expected you to change. They thought you would always accept certain behavior or keep things running smoothly for them. But your mindset is evolving now. You’re realizing your peace, your time, and your energy are too important to keep giving away carelessly.
This period is helping you become more selective about who you invest in. Your loyalty and kindness are powerful qualities, but not everyone deserves access to that part of you.