@Sirmungalla@nickimoraa Because the men almost never allow us to live like that. I personally found myself having to ask permission to spend my own money on what I liked. Since he left I have decorated my house in ways I knew he would never allow. So, when they leave they give you a chance to live
@Ntombi_KaNdaba But an inconsistent father also damages the mind of the kids. We know so many people who grew up without their fathers and they are fine guys. Take your niece to therapy and most importantly pray and give her some love and support
@AluSuks@KhananiShingan1 If that's the analogy you want to go with, then it explains why the people from the place whose tap water you dont drink are all dead
@TholisoN @KhananiShingan1 Specialist, can we talk? What exactly is wrong with tap water. Do you work for a lab or water utility company or even municipality for that matter
@lavidaNOTA I was in her shoes for 3.5 years, during 3.5 years I worked at woolies as a cashier, spar as a packer, taxi rank registering people for RICA, and coca cola for packaging learners hip where I met a lady who had 6 years with Chem Eng and no employment. Thank God I finally got a job