We have an epidemic of women who cannot find a 6’8” multi millionaire golden retriever werewolf who respects her independence but will also lead her and give her space but also romance her but only when she wants, will not judge her past and also be religious but not serious.
The male mind cannot comprehend this (so they’ll say she’s lying). This is far more common than women who will sleep with “Chad” after knowing him for an hour.
Went on dates with guys who made >$700k and had wiki pages and the first thing they would complain about when they got comfortable on the date was that they didn’t like “dumb” girls they couldn’t talk to.
I found it strange that this man prioritized the ability to converse more than I thought because when we’d walk around in public, people would recognize him. It wasn’t just about looks.
I had one guy friend that would go on to make >$200k right out of college. And even when we were poor college kids, mid way thru a date with a cute girl, he made up an excuse that he had a work emergency come up at his part time job, paid the bill, and left.
He told me it was actually because he got super bored.
Had another man worth >$1M, self made, by his early 30s. He kept complimenting me on my side hustles and career. Said I understood because we were in the same fields.
There is a certain type of man that does care about looks but equally cares about the ability to converse if not more.
my “fuck Chris Pratt” story: met them both at Rainn Wilson’s fundraiser in Seattle before Pratt’s big break thru, I approached Anna for a pic & gushed about how much I loved her in House Bunny. Pratt legit scoffed, eye rolled, & was visibly annoyed. 💐 flowers for Anna!
PLEASE read the entire thread. This is one of their best articles to date! I can also attest to the power of all of this. Happily married for 37 years next week. You want a marriage that's 🔥🔥🔥??
This is the key. Thanks @BritHugoboom
Women want men to love every version of them: the trauma, the baggage, the mood swings, all of it.
But once a man brings his own wounds to the table, suddenly he’s “too much.”
The audacity of demanding what you won’t deliver is wild.
I was locked down in a committed relationship the past 7 years & been single only 5 months (ish), God DAMN y'all fucked the dating game up.. da fuck is this even
When I was 16 I sat in a doctor’s office crying because I wanted a boob reduction so badly.
I had massive boobs by the time I was 13 and I genuinely HATED them growing up. Girls at school talked about me behind my back, older men stared at me constantly, teachers dress coded me for outfits other girls could wear without issues, and every bra felt like medieval armor 😭
I used to wear giant hoodies in 100 degree weather just to hide my chest because I was so embarrassed by how much attention it got me.
By high school I had horrible back pain, permanent bra strap marks on my shoulders, and this deep feeling that my body was “too much.” I remember thinking if I could just make my boobs smaller maybe people would finally see ME instead of immediately staring at my chest the second I walked into a room.
So I seriously almost got a reduction.
And honestly? Thank god I didn’t.
Because somewhere between graduating high school and becoming an absolute menace in college, my entire relationship with my body changed 💀
In college I slowly stopped hiding myself. I started wearing tighter tops. Going to parties. Flirting more. Letting myself actually FEEL hot instead of apologizing for existing all the time.
And eventually I realized something:
I didn’t hate my boobs.
I hated the shame everyone else attached to them.
The same body I used to cry over became the body that gave me confidence, attention, freedom, and honestly a huge part of my personality now 😭
Don’t get me wrong, they still cause problems. My back still hurts. Bikinis are still a scam. Button-up shirts are basically science fiction. Men still forget how to maintain eye contact around me.
But now? I genuinely love them.
It’s honestly crazy looking back at younger me crying in oversized hoodies because she thought her body was a curse… meanwhile adult me grew into a massive slut who absolutely worships her giant tits 💀
Do you like my tits too?
usually if ppl have few/no friends it’s bc they struggle w/ social skills, depression, or have a busy schedule. none of those are moral failings. however I find it consistent that highly manipulative & selfish ppl are often charismatic & have huge friend groups who enable them
@JolieStassi Ah ok. Your original tweet didn’t mention that he had a different time originally set (with the deposit tied to that time) before trying to change it. That detail changes the story a lot. I do agree with you keeping the deposit in this instance.
People on TikTok are like “If someone you don’t know says hi to you as you pass them on a sidewalk, they’re engaging in a manipulation tactic called ‘boundary-bombing’—here’s 5 signs to look out for” and then their next post is “The Village Theory” about how people need community
Yes!!! There is no incentive for people to not be assholes when theyre dating someone who has 0 attachment to their existing social network.
Your reputation is not at risk at all. Bad behavior has little consequences.
This means avoidance/cowardice/selfishness can thrive