@luv1bun SMH I get this same reaction when people find out I'm a librarian. I've lost track of how many people have asked me when I'm going to get a real job. 🙃
No matter what anyone says, I thought those two people climbing the Empire State Building and displaying a banner and then getting engaged was one of the coolest, romantic things I’ve ever seen. I just thought it was awesome even though I thought was going to have a panic attack just watching them.
bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
I saw something on Tiktok that said, "Nobody isolates more than the oldest daughter who knows nobody is coming to save her". & Tbh immediately I teared up.
Then to add to it, I go to the comments and saw "isolation, extreme independence, the need to accomplish everything but never feeling like you've accomplished enough".
& That hit deep
Firstborn daughters may have a mean/tough demeanor; however, this is usually only a defensive mechanism because they've had to be strong for a long time. When you get to know them, you realise that they are the softest, kindest, and most loving people you will ever meet.
We are overstimulated and we don't even notice. Netflix while eating. Reels in the bathroom. Music while cooking. Podcasts on walks. We consume by default, not by intention. You keep filling every gap, then wonder why you feel foggy and unmotivated.
Boredom and silence are the real growth drivers. They give you space to think and create. That's when solutions show up for problems that have been stuck for months. Leave some room.
@_AkNgozi I was gonna say something, but I was like I KNOW he was rushing and that was absolutely an accident, lol. You are too polished for that to be anything other than a mistake.