The older I get the more I understand why people say, “When you love your life, you can’t be around people who hate theirs because they’re always either complaining or comparing.”
we live in a world where sex workers are judged but not their clients, single mothers are judged but not absent fathers, rape victims are judged but not the rapists and the ones who speak out are judged instead of the ones covering it up
Women are the primary protectors of women and children. Men are the primary predators of women and children. Men rape across every country, culture, and religion. There is no place on earth that mothers don’t have to protect their children from men.
men will protect their money, their reputation, their secrets, and their male friends before they'll protect a woman being mistreated. then they'll call themselves protectors.
Do you wonder why you see performers in their late 70's, 80's and yes, even 90's , Englebert Humperdinck, Frankie Vallie some are in wheelchairs [Mike Love ] some needing oxygen mid performance [Rod Stewart] etc and you're wondering why the hell are they out on tour instead of retired?
I'm more convinced than ever that most hetero relationships only survive because the woman continually lowers her expectations and sacrifices her needs.
"Nagging" is how we turned men's lack of ACCOUNTABILITY into women's character flaw.
Instead of questioning why he needs to be asked 10 times, we criticize her for asking 10 times.
One of the stranger parts of being an adult is realizing how many people have never questioned a single belief they inherited. Not even out of curiosity.