i hope i marry a man who understands how important little things are. folding clothes when i’m exhausted. washing the dishes after i cook. putting gas in the car for me. sending me flowers when i’m having a bad day. it’s the little things that show true appreciation
a girl on tik tok just said “i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
women are reciprocators, not initiators. you lead, she follows. you put in effort, she returns it. you make her feel good, she mirrors it. that’s the only way it works
if my partner is an overthinker, then i'll be an over explainer. i have no issue putting their mind at ease. the goal is too build trust..not destroy it