If in your eyes, being a certain gender is only about genitals and chromosomes, then why don’t you want your son to wear a dress? In your eyes, it can’t make him any less of a man, right?
The fact that throughout human history and across entirely different continents, women had to develop specific cultural practices just to escape the horrors of wartime men is terrifying. Darfur women had the right idea.
One thing about adulthood that way too many people learn way too late (and have no choice but to learn the hard way): you have to be deliberate/proactive about everything. For the first time in your life, you can't be passive participant in anything.
if you have gemini or 3H placements and you just sit in your house all day not interacting with people, not going out, not socializing, not TALKING… you might be wasting your greatest gifts. you have the gift of the gab! you gotta use it to make connections and build community…
Every freedom you have as a woman was earned through the sacrifice of women who came before you. You didn’t inherit these rights by luck. Someone marched, protested, and paid a price for them.