If you ever fall in love, fall in love with someone who wants to learn the little details about you, like your favorite color or how you take your coffee. Choose someone who treasures your laugh and would do whatever it takes to hear it. Find someone who rests their head on your chest just to listen to your heartbeat, and who proudly kisses you in public, eager to introduce you to everyone in their life. Be with someone whose love makes you forget why you were ever afraid of opening your heart. Fall for someone who would never willingly hurt you, who adores your flaws, and sees you as completely perfect just as you are. Most of all, fall in love with someone who views you as the one person they want to wake up next to every single day.
Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly.
Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.
I’m leaving survival mode. ❤️
Things will fall into place. I’m getting my life back, my peace back, my joy back. I trust that everything is working in my favour.
This next chapter will be beautiful. ✨
Everybody gets to that stage in life where no one needs to force you to serve God. You will look for Him yourself. That moment when you realize life is deeply spiritual and a lot of things are not ordinary.
One minute, you’re thinking there’s no way out; the next, God has made a pathway for you in the middle of the sea! What a God! There is no impossibility with Him.
I heard someone say, satan got adam and eve to fix their eyes on one tree when god had already given them an entire garden, think about that. The enemy didn't have to convince them that they had nothing. He just had to make them forget everything that they already had. And he still, till this day, uses the same strategy. He gets us to focus on relationships we don't have, the job that we don't have, the opportunity we don't have, the healing we haven't seen yet. Meanwhile, we are blind to the countless prayers god has already answered. Gratitude isn't pretending you don't want more, it's refusing to let what you don't have make you forget the goodness of god that's already surrounding you.