bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
โMen get raped too, you dumb bitch.โ
Yes. Yes they do.
Men get raped too, and their pain is real. Their trauma matters. Their voices deserve to be heard, believed, and protected. They deserve support without shame, without mockery, and without being told to โman upโ or stay silent. Survivors are survivors, regardless of gender.
So if you care so much, are you actually standing up for them? Are you holding their rapists accountable? Are you reminding men that what they wore, what they drank, how old they were, or whether they froze in fear was never the cause of their assault? Are you telling them that rape happens for one reason only: because a rapist chose to rape?
Or do menโs experiences only matter to you when you can weaponize them against women?
Because real advocacy doesnโt show up only when women are speaking about violence. Real advocacy means fighting for all survivors, even when it doesnโt serve your argument. It means creating space for male survivors to speak without turning their trauma into a debate tactic. It means caring about justice more than scoring points.
If the only time you mention male victims is to silence women, then you are not defending men. You are exploiting their trauma to dismiss someone elseโs pain.
Male survivors deserve better than that.
And women do too.
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