Had surgery yesterday and then proceeded to do UMAD for 3 hours, don't recommend but I do love while fight so far ๐ I just definitely should NOT have been sitting up yet for that long lmao
@MakeshitBait A friend sent me this bc she saw my sticker in there! It was so nice to sticker trade with you ๐ I hope you enjoy the stickers I and Shroom (Mr. Can you lock the fuck in) brought with us โจ๏ธ
and please stop asking me to marry you lmao, while I am very flattered and often it is sent with other kind messages, it's happened 6 times now and I feel like that's getting to be wayyyy too many times. me being kind and excited is not flirting I promise ๐
I've seen a lot of discussion on ffxiv raiding and how toxic it can be and is often called a "boy's club" for more hardcore groups so here's some of my thoughts: it absolutely is in many ways. I have had some very negative experiences in raid and I'm often raid lead.
also, I find it very interesting the amount of times I've met people in ffxiv, let them know I'm happily in a relationship, and either during raid/roulettes/fc events or just on discord they're flirted with me SOMETIMES IN FRONT OF MY PARTNER. the audacity.