Being able to see both sides of everything is the reason I’m so forgiving. I understand that some of yall are genuinely crazy. Genuinely insecure. Genuinely stupid. Genuinely still hurt . Genuinely feel powerless. Genuinely don’t know yourself. Genuinely lost. Genuinely confused.
Healing taught me that honesty wouldn't ruin a real thing. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off proper people. And authenticity won't cost you genuine relationships.
Having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, still love you when things are a mess, still love you when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.