Chinwe 🇳🇬

Loved at home and abroad

[EgoKuwait 🇰🇼 @Egokuwait]

Absolutely nothing, not food, not sex, not character, not money.

If a man loves you, he loves you.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

When a man applies too much pressure within the first few weeks of meeting you, he is often driven by lust and mainly wants to sleep with you as quickly as possible. As a woman, you should be able to recognize this.

[Chinwe 🇳🇬 @Mezie_Chi]

Seems like most people don't know, but you can ask your bank to send you the sender's details (bank name, account number and sending bank) for a transaction you are not sure about.

You can do this using your email tied to the account and quoting the transaction alert

[Taller🥇 @Alameen___Abba]

I received an alert of N5,000,000 (five million naira) in my account one day unexpectedly. At first, I thought it was a mistake or some kind of system error. I checked my balance several times and even refreshed my banking app to confirm if it was real.

After confirming the money was actually there, I chose not to rush to the bank or report it immediately. I decided to stay calm and observe what would happen next. I also made a firm decision not to spend a single kobo from the money.

Days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months, but there was no message, call, or complaint from anyone claiming the money. I kept monitoring my account quietly, still seeing the five million intact.

One year passed, and the money was still there untouched, with no owner coming forward. I continued living my normal life, refusing to touch what did not belong to me, waiting to see if the rightful owner would ever appear.

[DezignwitFavor @daniel_young30]

She trusted them with everything. They sold her for nothing 🎬

[Mrs. Butters 🥧 @MrsButters]

This is crazy!
Must watch to the end

[CJ☔️ @samwakinsvv]

Ngl he was minding his business and they turned him into a freedom fighter in under a minute LMFAOO

[Ichigo Niggasake @SomaKazima2]

She said nothing but FACTS. If YOU aren't going to raise them DON'T HAVE THEM

[ava❦' @yujionthatbeat]

ariana is still wrong for getting with that man from the start but damn he threw away his highschool sweetheart wife and newborn kid for no reason at all. good luck being divorced and also spongebob

[UG🇵🇹 @UgwunnaEjikem]

2 days ago Police burst aiye axeman wey be top drug lord for Thailand, werey tell Thai Police say NBM na “charity group” say ‘Dodorimma’ means “Hello”😂😂

[Walter 🇳🇬 🇵🇭 🇨🇦 @gamerwalt]

Love doesn't keep a marriage together. Stubbornness does.

There will be days or weeks where you look at your spouse and feel absolutely zero romance.

You're both exhausted from work, the kids have drained every last drop of your patience, and honestly, just the way your partner is chewing their food might piss you off or the way their spoon is hitting the plate is so annoying.

​Nobody warns you how repetitive it gets.

You spend 90% of your time just trying to figure out what's for dinner, managing the house, and trying not to keep score of who took out the trash last.

The real lesson is that marriage is a group project where everyone is constantly tired. Especially when both parties work 9 to 5.

You also have to realize that most of your fights are not even about deep relationship issues... you're just stressed, sleep deprived and or hungry.

You survive by biting your tongue, letting the petty stuff slide, and waking up the next day, being stubborn by deciding you're not going to quit.

[Pardes Seleh 🧜‍♀️ @PardesSeleh]

Real trad wives don’t often have the opportunity to talk on social media about their experience. Here’s the daughter of a trad wife describing what it was like for her:

[Global Relocation Guide @_AustriaUpdates]

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN,

⁣⁣𝐒𝐊𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐒 𝐍𝐈𝐆𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐍𝐒 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐍 𝐈𝐍 𝐍𝐈𝐆𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐀 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐕𝐄𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐀𝐁𝐑𝐎𝐀𝐃, 𝐬𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫, 𝐛𝐞𝐠, 𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞⁣.

This is the part nobody likes to talk about. All you want is japka as if money is growing on trees abroad.⁣

Before visa.⁣
Before IELTS.⁣
Before embassy prayers.⁣
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There are BASIC, LOW-LEVEL, HIGH-DEMAND skills Nigerians should already know before leaving Nigeria.⁣
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Real-life survival and money skills.⁣

𝟏. 𝐃𝐑𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐈𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐎𝐏𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐀𝐋 𝐀𝐁𝐑𝐎𝐀𝐃⁣
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If you cannot drive, you will suffer.⁣
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Full stop.⁣
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Driving gives you:⁣
• Freedom⁣
• Multiple income options⁣
• Time control⁣
• Independence⁣
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People abroad make money from:⁣
• Uber / Bolt⁣
• Amazon Flex⁣
• DoorDash / Instacart⁣
• Medical transport⁣
• Private deliveries⁣
• Chauffeur work⁣
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Learning to drive abroad costs:⁣
• Thousands⁣
• Months of delay⁣
• Failed tests⁣
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Learn it in Nigeria cheaply.⁣
Master it.⁣
Arrive ready.⁣

2. HAIR BRAIDING & BEAUTY SKILLS PRINT MONEY⁣
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People joke about “braiding hair.”⁣
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Let me tell you something.⁣
Hair pays rent abroad.⁣
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Skills that make cash fast:⁣
• Hair braiding⁣
• Wig making⁣
• Loc installation⁣
• Barbering⁣
• Lash extensions⁣
• Nails⁣
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These skills:⁣
• Need little English⁣
• Have African clients everywhere⁣
• Pay cash⁣
• Travel with you⁣
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Many salons abroad are owned by Nigerians.⁣
Clients are booked months ahead.⁣

3. COOKING IS A BUSINESS, NOT JUST A TALENT⁣
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If you can cook well, you are sitting on money.⁣
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Abroad, people pay heavily for:⁣
• Nigerian food⁣
• Party trays⁣
• Meal prep⁣
• Catering⁣
• Frozen meals⁣
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Learn:⁣
• Portion control⁣
• Food hygiene⁣
• Packaging⁣
• Pricing⁣
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People abroad are tired.⁣
They buy convenience.⁣

4. SEWING & ALTERATIONS⁣
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Fashion doesn’t disappear abroad.⁣
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People need:⁣
• Clothes shortened⁣
• Zips changed⁣
• Dresses adjusted⁣
• Wedding outfits fixed⁣
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Learn sewing properly.⁣
Not Instagram tailoring.⁣
Real measurements.⁣
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One sewing machine abroad can feed a family.⁣

5. CLEANING IS A BUSINESS IF DONE RIGHT⁣
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Not house-help mentality.⁣
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Commercial cleaning pays:⁣
• Offices⁣
• Schools⁣
• Airbnb⁣
• Construction sites⁣
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Learn:⁣
• Deep cleaning⁣
• Equipment use⁣
• Chemicals⁣
• Speed & quality⁣
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Many Nigerians abroad clean quietly and own houses later.⁣

6. HANDYMAN & REPAIR SKILLS ARE GOLD⁣
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People abroad don’t fix things themselves.⁣
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Learn:⁣
• Painting⁣
• Basic plumbing⁣
• Light electrical work⁣
• Furniture assembly⁣
• TV mounting⁣
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Clients pay for 30 minutes what some earn in a full day.⁣

7. LAUNDRY & IRONING IS UNDERVALUED MONEY⁣
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People hate washing and ironing.⁣
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Abroad:⁣
• Time is money⁣
• Convenience is king⁣
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Learn professional laundry:⁣
• Stain removal⁣
• Folding⁣
• Packaging⁣
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Simple skill. Constant demand.⁣

8. CHILDCARE & ELDER CARE SKILLS⁣
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Not just “watching children.”⁣
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Learn:⁣
• Basic childcare⁣
• First aid⁣
• Safety routines⁣
• Elder support⁣
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Care jobs are always available.⁣
Certification helps.⁣
Experience matters.⁣

9. BASIC COMPUTER SKILLS SEPARATE YOU FROM SUFFERING⁣
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You don’t need to be a tech genius.⁣
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But you must know:⁣
• Email⁣
• Online forms⁣
• Scheduling⁣
• Scanning documents⁣
• Printing⁣
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Many Nigerians abroad lose jobs because they can’t fill simple forms.⁣
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If you are still in Nigeria:⁣
Learn something with your hands.⁣
Learn something practical.⁣
Learn something people pay for.⁣
⁣
Visa expires.⁣
Skills don’t.⁣

Best wishes

[Nigeria Stories @NigeriaStories]

A Nigerian 🇳🇬mum based in South Africa 🇿🇦 confronts ‘28-year-old’ South African man for attempting to drag her 10-year-old daughter into his apartment.

[ela. jurídico castle @kcaskett]

uma vez quando eu era criança minha tia me perguntou se eu preferia morar em casa ou apartamento e eu bobinha que nunca tinha morado em ap respondi com os olhos brilhando “apartamento”. meus pais brigaram muito comigo porque eu não disse casa. passados 10 anos essa tia vira e fala “lembra que você disse que preferia morar em apartamento? comprei um pra você” e meus pais brigaram de novo comigo porque eu podia ter ganho uma casa 💀

[General’s Mommy❤️ @olusola__]

Yesterday I was out with Yinka and Ire, while we were waiting for our burgers to arrive, some guy walked up to us (decently dressed) asking that we please help with transport fare, our first response was ‘sorry but we do not have any cash on us’
He said he wouldn’t mind transfer even if it’s just 1k. We declined so he left.
Yinka said he felt inclined to help so he walked up to him asked for his details and transferred 20k to him.
The guy walked back to our table, thanked both of us and left.
About 10minutes later, he was back again.
He said, “I was already at the POS before I realised how much you actually sent, I’m so sorry for thanking you casually. God bless you” he kept thanking us while we kept telling him it was okay and he could leave.
This experience has stayed with me since yesterday and I really pray life is good to him wherever he is🥹❤️

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

I once had a sexual relationship with an auditor in my organization. The department I was heading used to send procurement and maintenance approvals to her, and the amounts involved were substantial.

Immediately we started sleeping with each other, she stopped vetting my requests and drilling me the way an auditor should. Every single request was met with, "Approved. Best regards."

Some days, she would be naked in my apartment while I fondled her boobs as she sat on the bed with her laptop processing my approvals. She would go, "Babe, I have treated your requests. I'll quickly follow up with the Finance Department to make payment. You don't have to stress, my love."

Now imagine if I had been padding the figures on those requests. I could have easily ripped the organization off simply because two employees decided to get into a sexual relationship.

Hope this answers your question.

[Spirit of Conver$ion! @BigBadReni]

One thing we can learn from our mothers is having “asiri”.

Learn to keep secrets as a woman, bc idk why tf you people are arguing abortion with men.

Are they helping you carry the baby? 🥴

[ọrẹ @orethebrave]

ancestors had a whole festival for her yunno. people measured wealth by her. cannot actually believe the yam slander i'm seeing.

[ohi|2d| @_bigSnek]

Yes they taught us that in CRK