@Armylucifer001 This is another Jungle justice. As Long as a person is not tried and sentence to a punishment we should not encourage citizens or uniform men to take laws into their hands
This why when I hear Nigerian men lamenting about women taking a man's properties after marriage on Nigerian Twitter I say you people use to go and borrow problems from UK and US and come and be complaining. Here you take what you brought or what you contributed to building.
Nigerian law is against women, they don’t mandate men to split their properties into two and give half to woman after divorce - aunty laments what she witnessed in court as go support her fellow woman that divorced her husband and hoping to get properly shares
@Iyoaiye_ I like that women have become so aware and sanitized to leave once they perceive their end coming. I don't even understand that in this big age men still talk like we have sufficient peace to want to remain in chaos all in the name of marriage.
Women don’t owe men sex. If you think otherwise, you’re promoting rape culture. Hope that helps. Babies get raped. Elderly women get raped. Women dressed modestly get raped. Women in hijabs get raped. Nuns get raped. Women in jeans, tracksuits, pajamas, school uniforms, and work uniforms get raped. There is no outfit that prevents rape and no outfit that invites it.
If you are more comfortable analyzing a woman’s clothing than condemning a rapist, you are part of the problem.
Most people judge clothes on Temu by the photos.
Big mistake.
The fastest way to avoid buying clothes that feel like cheap plastic is to ignore the pictures and read the Fabric Composition.
Here's a simple cheat sheet:
Avoid (unless blended well)
• 100% Polyester
• 95% Polyester, 5% Spandex
• Cheap synthetic blends
Run away.
These are usually thin, shiny, trap heat, build static, and often feel like swimwear instead of actual clothing.
Look for
• Modal (extremely soft)
• Combed Cotton
• Ring-Spun Cotton
• 100% Cotton
• Viscose/Rayon (soft and smooth)
If you're shopping for specific items:
Jeans:
Search "100% Cotton Denim", "Heavyweight Denim", or "Rigid Denim".
Dress shirts:
Search "Oxford Cotton", "Cotton Poplin", or "100% Cotton Dress Shirt".
Jackets:
Search "Heavyweight", "Fleece Lined", or "Wool Blend".
Vintage clothes:
Look for Corduroy, Heavy Knit, or Washed Cotton.
One last trick that saves me money every time:
Never trust the product photos.
Go straight to the reviews, filter by "With Photos", and look at pictures uploaded by real buyers. That's where you'll see what the fabric actually looks and feels like.
Also look out for promos, you can get stuff for cheap and free packages for a cheap price.
Hope this helps once you understand your size, body, texture or material you're good.
@AweniOnibata Nigerians don't sue enough because what is this peak fooling? A strictly No refund policy from someone that you should be suing to perform her obligations under a contract?
@Chinaluemmanuel I don't agree though. When it comes to marriage even if her name was not on it at all she could still lay claim by showing that she contributed to the purchase of the property. Now Mr. and Mrs. Shows that there was an intention the man will have to claim he had another Mrs.
The landlord's increment and illegal light disconnection are wrong. Wealthy or not, complaints shouldn't be dismissed, and affordability is a concern for everyone.
The bigger conversation here is that this woman clearly started facing multiple family and economic challenges that makes living in banana island clearly above her means. With 15-30m, she can get a flat in lekki 1 or even VI, duplex in Dolphin Ikoyi, etc. Even if she goes to court, she may lose because she's lived there for 5yrs without increment so the landlord is well within his right to increase to prevailing market rates, especially with ample notice. Almost all her arguments are emotional arguments, while the conversation is a business one. It's why I've always insisted on adjusting to live within your capabilities. It'll never make sense to me to think staining your image to be crying online about your banana island rent, to people who mostly live in Iyana Ipaja or oworonshoki, is a better option than simply adjusting your lifestyle to your current means.
@diaryofa9jagirl The Funny thing is , a lot of these superstitions I didn't know existed while growing up in the village until I got to Lagos😂😂. I hear some and I am like , which planet are you people from? Like the safety pins on pregnant women's clothes.