STOP THINKING YOU CAN SAVE A PERSON FROM THEMSELVES!!! THEY HAVEN’T CHANGED BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO—OR THEY AREN’T READY. YOU CAN’T FORCE A PERSON TO BE READY FOR GROWTH. THEY HAVE TO WANT THAT FOR THEMSELVES!! THEY HAVE TO SEE THEIR OWN VALUE.
A white woman just told me she loves that I have the confidence to wear my natural hair. I told her, I love the fact that she’s confident enough to wear hers too.
She got the point. Very quickly.
rly sick of ppl misusing “I had some help” on instagram. post a traumatic photo of ur ex who played victim & use the song! stir it up a bit. we’re BORED we don’t care about ur scenic view or fun weekend out. give us the TEA