I got a text from someone to hangout and i went out with this guy, i told the guy that it’s a friendly hangout but he kissed me and his kind words somehow made me feel heard in a while and i made a mistake of assuming he meant well and i need to move on.
and that if they play along (most people don't) if you're not comfortable with them having a piece of their own life just for themselves, you can't actually know who they are.