my red flag? I need to know why ?? silence isn’t an answer and ghosting isn’t an answer either. We’re adults, use your words and just tell me what’s going on
honestly, i think long-distance relationships can create a kind of love that’s completely different. you don’t get to rely on physical closeness all the time, so you learn to fall for the person themselves.
their voice becomes comforting. their messages become something you look forward to. you start paying attention to the little details about them because that’s what you have.
of course it hurts not being able to hold them, kiss them, or simply sit beside them whenever you want. but that distance also teaches you how valuable those moments really are.
when you finally get to be together, you don’t take a single second for granted. because you know exactly what it feels like to miss them.
Almighty. Protect us from the evil around. Grant us strength and good patience to cope with our trials. Help us surrender to Your Decree because You know what we don’t. You know what we need. You know what’s best for us. Aameen.
My rules as a boyfriend:
1. You don’t need my permission to have a life. Just communicate with me.
2. If you’re busy, tell me. I don’t need constant attention. I just don’t like being left guessing.
3. Have your own friends, hobbies, goals and interests. I’ll never ask you to shrink your life to fit mine.
4. If something I do bothers you, tell me. I’d rather fix a problem than win an argument.
5. I’ll listen to the things you’re excited about, even if I know absolutely nothing about them.
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