a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
as soon as my skin starts breaking out and my hair gets weird I have to stop being friends with someone and I know that may sound schizophrenic but it’s not
my therapist was telling me today that there's no disappointment when you accept things or people for what they are. but you don't always have to cut people off when they don't meet your expectations sometimes you just have to adjust the relationship + accept their capacity.
Whenever I catch myself trash talking my past self for the wrong decisions I made, I stop and think, "She flopped so you could slay." And I immediately stop being mean to her because that's my homegirl for real! And she did her best😭😭