After a certain age, you are no longer the product of your environment or how you were raised. It's a personal choice to live the way you do. At some point, blaming your past becomes a distraction from your future. Healing is your responsibility. Growth is your decision.
someone said “when you lose the emotional attachment to them, you begin to realize how ordinary they are, and that it was your love and energy that made them unique” and i seriously couldn’t have worded it better
Avoid marrying a short-tempered man. His anger won't just ruin moments. It will ruin you, your peace, and your future kids. Choose a man with patience. Life is already hard. Dont make it harder.