The biggest skill you can develop is the ability to reset fast. Bad conversation? Move on. Bad day? Start fresh tomorrow. Missed workout? Hit it the next day. Poor decision? Learn and adjust. You can’t control what happens to you, but you control how long you let it affect you.
Y'all wanna be toxic soooo bad. Meanwhile, I'm tryna kill every toxic trait within me. I don't wanna argue, be disrespectful, act cold, or question love.
I wanna be gentle, accountable, emotionally intelligent, supportive, and soft with my person.
Real love deserves real peace.
I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect. and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
most people are very aware of what they're doing & how they're moving. that's why I always listen to my gut feelings & never hesitate to revoke access to me & my energy. if you can consciously act shady towards me then I can consciously cut you out of my life.
I be feeling bad about being on bad terms with people I really love, I be wanting to reach out and fix shit but I just can’t do it anymore. People are constantly showing their true colors and i gotta respect it. Sometimes you just gotta wish them well & let them be.
when your bra and panties match, you’re freshly moisturized & your hair and nails are done and you stand in the mirror like damn baby girl who tf is yooouuu
I don’t want no ngga with a yn mindset , I need a family man, make yo money come straight back home to us trips dates family vacations 💞y’all can have these nggas that wanna fucc different btches & do yn sht. These nggas LIL BOYS send a MAN my way & watch how I treat em 🫶🏾
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma and hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.