To everyone so eager to cancel someone for a tattoo they got at age 22, a drunk text, a selfie they took in the middle of a mental health crisis:
Show us your laptop.
Show us your iCloud.
Open your entire digital life to your worst enemy. No context. No filter. No explanation.
You won’t.
You won’t because you know what I know. Any one of us, frozen at our worst moment, photographed in our lowest hour, looks like a monster. Looks like a stranger. Looks like someone who deserves to be cast out.
That is not who we are.
My mom and baby sister were killed in a car accident when I was just a kid. Cancer took my brother Beau, my best friend and my rock. I battled alcoholism. I battled addiction. I chose the coward’s way out more times than I can count.
For years I believed the defining chapters of my life were written by tragedy, loss, and shame.
I no longer believe that.
Pain can shape us. Loss can humble us. Failures can leave scars that never fully fade. But none of them have the authority to define us.
And it sure as hell ain’t the critic that counts.
That authority belongs to us alone-the person in the arena.
Every setback presents a choice. Play the victim, or cut the bullshit and take ownership for who we become next.
Life does not determine our character. It reveals it.
Again and again we are asked the same question. When shit happens, what next?
We are not defined by what happened to us. We are not defined by the worst photo, the worst text, the worst tattoo, the worst night. We are defined by the person we choose to become. And by the courage to choose that person, every single day.
So before you reach for the gavel - show us your laptop.
You won’t.
The whole world saw mine. And I am still here. Still becoming. Still choosing. Still standing.
That is the only definition that matters.
@stanleyogie24@SteveGuest@ScottJenningsKY What generation do you think I am? Of course I haven’t paid as much as a billionaire in $$, but I did in %%. I’m not picking on just Elon. Bezos can join that club…and Trump…and many others. I don’t care about his wealth, but I do care when billionaires pay less than a teacher.
@AwakenWithJP The government literally gives him money and tax credits while he pays 3.3% in taxes. The rest of us pay 14%. He certainly knows how to scam the system.
@nicksortor I bet they’re all paying more than 3% in taxes. Considering they advocate for a wealth tax that they would also pay. Elon paid $0 taxes in 2018 and collects money from the government. No wonder he wanted to be DOGE. He had to protect his government money. 🤷🏼♀️
@BasedMikeLee He paid $0 in taxes in 2018 and has a tax rate of about 3.3%, while the rest of us average 14% of our income. No one cares if he’s rich. There are lots of rich people. We hate the one’s that get out of paying taxes while Republicans starve us and take our healthcare.
@SecDuffy@RCamposDuffy@victoriabeckham Isn’t that nice. You got another vacation after your 7-month paid vacation. While Americans starve. How lovely. 🙄
@WhiteHouse Remember the bipartisan immigration bill during Biden’s administration that Trump killed so he could run on it for the election? Trump helped keep the crisis going just to win an election.
@atensnut She has a point about all the tax breaks he gets. He basically pays 3.3% in taxes while we pay 14% or higher. He paid $0 in 2018. If he pays 14%, I could care less how rich he is. 🤷🏼♀️
“No one gives a sh*t about housing.”
“If [gas prices] rise, they rise.”
"I don’t think about Americans’ financial situation."
"I love the inflation."
Donald Trump really is a man of the people, isn't he?